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And lord knows there’s very little redeeming value to Real Housewives of Any City. I’m not saying the shows aren’t entertaining, but what can you take away from those shows? They’re just drama and pop culture sayings.\n\nAnd it’s a special. A look at a unique family situation that seems to be…working. Just pretend Mike Wallace is involved and there’s a ticking clock in the background.\n\nI’m not big proponent of T.I. and Tiny’s show, but you know what, at least you get to see a family man and a man who deeply cares about the upbringing and morals of his children. In fact, T.I.’s show ruins his albums for me. And that’s the same principle I have to apply to “All My Babies’ Mamas”. Now, I’ll concede that the only thing I’m basing this on is the 13-minute trailer for the show (since removed – maybe the angry protests are working) which I was prepared to hate but by the time it was over, I was like, “well, damn, this might actually be a good show or at least worth watching.”\n\nWhile we can lament that he’s got all of these children, as long as he’s taking care of his brood then what else can we say. The kids are HERE already. And from the looks of the trailer, it actually seems somewhat compelling. You’ve got these 10 women who all seem to know and follow some baby mama hierarchy and almost respect it. They all know each other and and hang out to some degree. And what’s most important, they have established some sort of actual family structure. Who can’t get behind that?\n\nIn fact, the most disturbing part of the show was the rather…um…aesthetic variance of the women with whom L-O has chosen to procreate. Forget birth control, he needs stronger glasses. But you know what, that could be his taste and who I am to begrudge that man his tastes. Hell, they’re his skeletons, not mine. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?WomenDonTTrustMenWomenOrAnyonebutWh y END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?HowNeYoSWhenYouReMadGotItAllWro ng URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?HowNeYoSWhenYouReMadGotItAllWro ng DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20211126T230000Z DTEND:20211127T230000Z CREATED:20241127T162124Z DATE-MOD:20241127T162126Z SUMMARY:How Ne-Yo's 'When You're Mad' Got It All Wrong NAME:How Ne-Yo's 'When You're Mad' Got It All Wrong DESCRIPTION:Observations About Dance and Modern Relationships (https://bit.ly/4fJCRN4)\nThe Savvy Woman’s Guide To Decoding Men On Twitter (https://bit.ly/3VbvOEF)\nThe Kind of Woman a Man Never Forgets (https://bit.ly/3AQ7BwK)\nNews Flash: That Guy You're With Is a Pig (https://bit.ly/414dG3i)\n99 Remedies For the Relationship Impaired (https://bit.ly/3BbmxFD)\nRiding In Cars With Girls (https://bit.ly/3YZhvE0)\nAdvice To My Teen Son About Women And Dating (https://bit.ly/3AOGhyX)\nWhy Boys And Girls Need Different Dating Advice (https://bit.ly/498fF8y)\nThink Like A Man (https://bit.ly/4fAZJOF)\nWhat Makes You So Sure You're Wife Material (https://bit.ly/3CJESKF)\nWhen Smart People Make Dumb Dating Decisions (https://bit.ly/3AOubpz)\n\nFrom a technical standpoint, this is actually one of Jay-Z’s better albums. His subject matter and production is as complex and diverse as it’s ever been, and his flow hasn’t lost any of its signature effortlessness. Aside from his perfunctory forgettable track with his wife, nothing on MCHG is skip-worthy.\n\nYet, if I had to rank favorite Jay-Z albums, MCHG would finish last. As stated earlier, Jay-Z’s main draw has always been how good he was at convincing you he’s as rich as he currently is. But now, when the person finally matches up with the persona, the persona ceases to be as compelling, and the music ceases to resonate. The level of cognitive dissonance needed to be a serious rap fan is no longer necessary when listening to an album made by a person who no longer has any need for hyperbole. After at least a dozen listens, there’s no doubt Jay-Z is the only rapper who could have made MCHG. Unfortunately, there’s also no doubt that MCHG is the only album this Jay-Z—a maven salesman with nothing left to sell—can make. It’s not elevator music as much as it’s music made by (and for) people with elevators in their homes.”\n\nI wrote this three years ago, as the beginning to a post about Erykah Badu’s Window Seat video. Aside from adding my own interpretation of Badu’s motives for creating this video, I somewhat condescendingly imply that her diehard fans are incapable of being objective when assessing her work.\n\nI felt the same way while attending an event at the Andy Warhol Museum last weekend. That Warhol was a visionary deserving of all lauds and accolades is undeniable. But, the visit just reinforced the fact that when certain people reach a certain stature, anything they do is accepted as genius, including some things that garner “Wows” when they should be receiving a chorus of “WTFs.”\n\nI guess you can argue that status is earned. If a newly found, ketchup-stained napkin with Warhol’s signature on it is able to command 1.6 million dollars at an auction, this says more about the transcendent force of Warhol’s talent that anything else. His resume allows him to receive the benefit of the doubt.\n\nBut, the person actually making that purchase allows himself to be gamed by a person’s name instead of making an honest assessment of the actual product. And, not only are they lying to themselves, they perform the worst type of self-delusion—one where a person is completely aware of the lie they’re telling themselves, but they’re completely sold on selling it to themselves anyway. They’ve fully bought in to the bullshit, and when you buy bullshit that you literally saw drop out of a cow’s ass, you have no integrity. You make yourself a slave to a person instead of what that person creates and/or what they represent. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?HowNeYoSWhenYouReMadGotItAllWrong END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheLongRoadToAccountabilityRede finingWha URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheLongRoadToAccountabilityRede finingWha DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20221128T230000Z DTEND:20221129T230000Z CREATED:20241129T154937Z DATE-MOD:20241129T154937Z SUMMARY:The Long Road to Accountability: Redefining What Men Should Do NAME:The Long Road to Accountability: Redefining What Men Should Do DESCRIPTION:Three Men To Avoid At The Bar (https://bit.ly/3CPdKd8)\nAbout Bad Guys And The Women Who Love Them (https://bit.ly/4i3FMSl)\nThe Gangsta’s Guide To Watching Chick Flicks (https://bit.ly/4i7GIFf)\nWhen Your Valentine is Your Daughter (https://bit.ly/49bvFGR)\nHow To Date Like A Psychopath (https://bit.ly/49azc8q)\nWhat Women Find Irresistible (https://bit.ly/3COtJIp)\nWhat Exactly Makes a “Good” Parent? (https://bit.ly/499fn1p)\nWho’s the No. 1 Woman in a Man’s Life? (https://bit.ly/4i9nZZM)\nSpouse or Parents…or Kids: Who Rank “First?” (https://bit.ly/4ibXVgQ)\nWe All Know That Black Girls Do That Right? (https://bit.ly/3Zek5WW)\nModern Male Emasculation (https://bit.ly/498jyKV)\nThe Surprising Power of a Simple Word in Dating (https://bit.ly/49jr8m0)\n\nWhen you come back in January, there will be some very noticeable changes with the site. Won’t go into detail about what exactly that’ll entail, but yeah. Things will just be…different.\n\nThe filming and editing process with our TV Pilot is almost complete. Although the site won’t be active for the next couple of weeks, our Twitter and Facebook pages will still be updated.\n\nWe’re also going to start distributing the gifts promised to those who contributed. Those should be coming in the next few weeks.\n\nBook #2 is in the works. Won’t give away too much about that yet, but will say that it has, um, something to do with this. \n\n*If you find yourself missing words written by VSB over the next couple of weeks, you can always find me at Ebony.com and Madame Noire and Panama at Guyspeak\n\nThat’s about it, folks. We hope everyone has a safe and happy holiday experience, and if the world doesn’t end in the next couple of days, we’ll see you all in 2013!\n\n1. I made the decision to write full-time a little over a year ago. While the transition hasn’t always been smooth, I maintain that it’s the best choice I ever made. The successes we’ve had at VSB collectively and I’ve had personally have been documented, and 2012 is shaping up to be even better.\n\nI’m bringing this up because all of this success has undoubtedly made my already large head even bigger. I’ve become more secure in my voice and my ability to articulate, amuse, and entertain, but with that came an arrogance that leads to days like yesterday.\n\nI think I can (and should be able to) tackle any topic, so when I was browsing through different websites Monday afternoon, looking for something to write for Tuesday, I came across Zerlina’s article about rape, read the comments, and naturally thought “I think I’ll offer a (slightly) dissenting viewpoint. I might upset a couple people, but it’ll be no big deal. They (our readership) know and love me already, so the people who do happen to get upset will forget all about it by 3pm Tuesday afternoon.”\n\nI was wrong. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheLongRoadToAccountabilityRedefini ngWha END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?FromCatfishToTrueLoveLessonsFro mVirtual URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?FromCatfishToTrueLoveLessonsFro mVirtual DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20221128T230000Z DTEND:20221129T230000Z CREATED:20241129T164048Z DATE-MOD:20241129T164048Z SUMMARY:From Catfish to True Love: Lessons from Virtual Romance NAME:From Catfish to True Love: Lessons from Virtual Romance DESCRIPTION:I understand your argument and I agree that any mandated paid parental leave would be an immense cost. There already is a parental leave of sorts. Look into Family and Medical Leave Act leave ( http://www.dol.gov/whd/fmla/ (http://www.dol.gov/whd/fmla/) ).\n\nTwelve workweeks of leave in a 12-month period for:\n\n the birth of a child and to care for the newborn child within one year of birth;\n the placement with the employee of a child for adoption or foster care and to care for the newly placed child within one year of placement;\n to care for the employee’s spouse, child, or parent who has a serious health condition;\n a serious health condition that makes the employee unable to perform the essential functions of his or her job;\n any qualifying exigency arising out of the fact that the employee’s spouse, son, daughter, or parent is a covered military member on “covered active duty;”\n\nThis is unpaid leave so the damage inflicted on the employer is only through lost productivity (I’m not trivializing the loss, just saying it could be worse). Basically the employer is forced to let the employee stop working for 12 weeks (3 months!) and cannot replace them in the meantime. From my own workplace observations it is not unusual for low-skill/low-wage employees to max out their FMLA every year… because they’re having another illegitimate child literally every year. For a low-wage single mom it is no problem to miss three month’s pay because they have: food stamps, subsidized housing, Medicaid, an earned income tax credit, and most likely child support.\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 2 Thumb down 0\nDavid M. Green August 30, 2014 at 09:58\nRE: “While I’m not usually a proponent of socialism,…”\n\nIt was the Anti- Socialist’s, Conservatives and Libertarian’s such as yourself who helped to pave the way for the Corporate Take Over of America and the resulting destruction of the Middle Class and Impoverishment of the Working Class.\n\nMy advice is to stop whining and complaining about the very bed your hands helped to make that you now have to ly in; and follow the maxim: When the going gets tough the tough get going!\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 0 Thumb down 2\nChris August 30, 2014 at 15:29\nBill, one of my sons had colic. He’s 19, and I still remember.\n\n\nYou Might Be Interested TO Read Also:*\nThree Men To Avoid At The Bar (https://bit.ly/3CPdKd8)\nAbout Bad Guys And The Women Who Love Them (https://bit.ly/4i3FMSl)\nThe Gangsta’s Guide To Watching Chick Flicks (https://bit.ly/4i7GIFf)\nWhen Your Valentine is Your Daughter (https://bit.ly/49bvFGR)\nHow To Date Like A Psychopath (https://bit.ly/49azc8q)\nWhat Women Find Irresistible (https://bit.ly/3COtJIp)\nWhat Exactly Makes a “Good” Parent? (https://bit.ly/499fn1p)\nWho’s the No. 1 Woman in a Man’s Life? (https://bit.ly/4i9nZZM)\nSpouse or Parents…or Kids: Who Rank “First?” (https://bit.ly/4ibXVgQ)\nWe All Know That Black Girls Do That Right? (https://bit.ly/3Zek5WW)\nModern Male Emasculation (https://bit.ly/498jyKV)\nThe Surprising Power of a Simple Word in Dating (https://bit.ly/49jr8m0) \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?FromCatfishToTrueLoveLessonsFromVir tual END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?RussianMenAttractionUnpackingCu lturalBias URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?RussianMenAttractionUnpackingCu lturalBias DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20211202T230000Z DTEND:20211203T230000Z CREATED:20241203T162111Z DATE-MOD:20241203T162112Z SUMMARY:Russian Men Attraction: Unpacking Cultural Biases NAME:Russian Men Attraction: Unpacking Cultural Biases DESCRIPTION:Things Men Talk About When Women Aren’t Looking (https://bit.ly/3OAnPx7)\nBlack Men Desirability: Unpacking Cultural Biases (https://bit.ly/4ieep8a)\nWomen' Things Men Struggle To Understand (https://bit.ly/4ihGVpy)\nGoing Nowhere Fast, We’ve Reached Our Climax (https://bit.ly/4irrDyy)\nAre Women Too Loyal for Their Own Good (https://bit.ly/3CUQ9I0)\nThings Black People Say? (https://bit.ly/41dXv3x)\nWhat Really Works For Us Chicks (https://bit.ly/4ijKImf)\nWords I Hope My Daughter Never Says (https://bit.ly/3AYvJgJ)\nWhy Women Get a Pass on Things Men Can’t (https://bit.ly/3CROmDn)\n5 Signs That You Might Be Dating a Zombie Who Might Zombie Apocalapyse Your A** (https://bit.ly/4ihnlJL)\n\nWhen people think about Russian men, certain stereotypes often come to mind: rugged, stoic, fiercely loyal, or even intimidating. These perceptions, shaped by cultural biases and media portrayals, can color how Russian men are seen in the world of dating and relationships. But what’s the truth behind these assumptions? Let’s unpack some of the common cultural biases surrounding Russian men and explore what truly defines their appeal.\n\n1. The Stereotype of Stoicism\nOne of the most prevalent stereotypes about Russian men is their supposed stoicism. Popular culture often depicts them as emotionally reserved, prioritizing practicality over sentiment. While it’s true that Russian culture values resilience and emotional strength, this doesn’t mean Russian men lack warmth or depth.\n\nIn fact, many Russian men express their emotions through actions rather than words. Loyalty, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to family and friends are often how they show love. This quiet yet steadfast nature is something many find deeply attractive, as it offers a sense of security and dependability.\n\n2. Misconceptions About Dominance\nAnother common bias is that Russian men are overly dominant in relationships. This stems from traditional gender roles that have historically influenced Russian society, where men were often seen as protectors and providers.\n\nHowever, modern Russian men are increasingly challenging these outdated norms. While many still take pride in being dependable and taking initiative, there’s a growing recognition of the importance of equality in relationships. This balance between strength and sensitivity makes them unique partners, capable of adapting to changing times while retaining traditional values.\n\n3. The Allure of Cultural Pride\nRussian men are deeply connected to their heritage, often embracing the rich history, literature, and traditions of their homeland. This cultural pride can be magnetic, offering partners a glimpse into a world filled with deep-rooted customs and values.\n\nHowever, this pride can sometimes be misunderstood as arrogance. The reality is that Russian men value authenticity and hold themselves to high standards, which can be misinterpreted by those unfamiliar with their culture.\n\nConclusion: Beyond the Biases\nThe attraction to Russian men lies in their complexity—a blend of strength, loyalty, and cultural richness. By looking beyond the stereotypes, it becomes clear that their appeal is not rooted in myths but in their authenticity and depth. True attraction starts when we unpack biases and embrace individuals for who they are. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?RussianMenAttractionUnpackingCultur alBias END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheRBSongThatTaughtMeAboutBeing InLov URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheRBSongThatTaughtMeAboutBeing InLov DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20211209T230000Z DTEND:20211210T230000Z CREATED:20241210T093620Z DATE-MOD:20241210T093621Z SUMMARY:The R&B Song That Taught Me About Being 'In Love' NAME:The R&B Song That Taught Me About Being 'In Love' DESCRIPTION:Rediscovering Love on My Own Terms (https://bit.ly/3ODlgdx)\nSingle Men Who Want More Women (https://bit.ly/3D0NwED)\nOpen Letter To Men Who Want More (https://bit.ly/4ihRnNE)\nFor Men Who Love Poly Dating (https://bit.ly/4idyw6t)\nProgressive Love Applauds Too $hort (https://bit.ly/4icEwMC)\nIs Love the Most Feared Emotion? (https://bit.ly/3CZav2Q)\nLove Kills Self Love & Self Esteem (https://bit.ly/3B05zu4)\nAre Nagging & Cheating Equally Damaging? (https://bit.ly/4in48q8)\nWhy Do We Fall In Love? Is It Healthy? (https://bit.ly/3OLPRFP)\nWhy Master Monogamy (https://bit.ly/4f219jW)\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 29 Thumb down 0\nepoche* August 30, 2014 at 05:15\nSo how could Foucault not see this existential threat to himself? Hatred. His hatred of Western Civilization & Capitalism was so blinding & all-consuming that he was blind to the danger. He merely saw the application of the maxim, “The Enemy(Islam) of my Enemy(The West) is my Friend” without considering there is an alternative: “The Enemy of my Enemy might be my Enemy too…”\n\nFeminism shares this blinding existential hatred as well…\n——————————————-\nTo someone such as Foucault someone such as Khomeini was a savior because he represented a leader of a different power structure that would overthrow the power base where he detested. He wasnt interested in anything more than that.\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 12 Thumb down 2\nepoche* August 30, 2014 at 06:20\nThis has nothing to do with anything on this board but why have Mens Rights people not utilized Kickstarter or Indiegogo to raise funds?\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 6 Thumb down 2\nUncle Elmer August 30, 2014 at 06:47\nBut here in the US we have serious gender crimes.\n\nSenator Kirstin Gillibrand, up and coming femist politician determined to get Hillary Clinton elected to the presidency, has a published a new tell-all with details about humiliating sexual harassment at the hands of senate colleagues :\n\nhttp://time.com/3197103/kirsten-gillibrand-senate-sexism/ (http://time.com/3197103/kirsten-gillibrand-senate-sexism/)\n\nNote “concerned female martyr-hero” pose in front of American flag.\n\nAs she is promoting legislation to change the military justice system based on flawed statistics about sexual assaults in the military, it makes sense for her to claim personal harassment as part of her overall marketing strategy. She should name her tormentors or shut up.\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 25 Thumb down 0 \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheRBSongThatTaughtMeAboutBeingInLo v END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?AreYouExperiencedOrExasperated URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?AreYouExperiencedOrExasperated DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20211211T230000Z DTEND:20211212T230000Z CREATED:20241212T103259Z DATE-MOD:20241212T103259Z SUMMARY:Are You Experienced or Exasperated? NAME:Are You Experienced or Exasperated? DESCRIPTION:Ladies We Need Answers (https://bit.ly/49t6JuJ)\nThe Difference Between Girls and Women (https://bit.ly/4g80eQB)\nOn Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged? (https://bit.ly/4g6WwGF)\nA Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s (https://bit.ly/4g80E9E)\nThe Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle (https://bit.ly/4g6Uxm1)\n10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single (https://bit.ly/4fZuRaN)\nThe Things Women Say That Piss Off Men (https://bit.ly/4ingZZs)\nChallenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger (https://bit.ly/4g6WjTT)\nWhy Relationships Commitment Scares Me (https://bit.ly/4iGvCaC)\nThe Dumbest Arguments Couples Have (https://bit.ly/4g8CI63)\nDon’t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic! (https://bit.ly/3D6FGt3)\nTickle Me Cheater (https://bit.ly/4g7vgb9)\n\nNo, I was talking to Tood. Hence the “you” and not “y’all”\n\nAre you familar with the plural form of “you”?\n\nAs in:\n\n“That said, I’m rather skeptical that any of you are at all like Epoxy. ”\n\nOh! You must have meant the multiple cloned versions of Tood that he keeps around him as an entourage.\n\nPlease enlighten me to my heaps of lies.\n\nI’m sure A.J. Travis has the information in his files. In fact, I’m on the phone with him now as I type…\n\n\nThe Fifth Horseman PERMALINK\nOctober 21, 2009 1:06 pm\nPA,\n\nCan’t comment about Obs, Epx or Tup., but in your case, don’t you mean “solid rep of knowing about sexbots”?\n\nA drive-by, eh? You are a pretty fragile little man, it appears.\n\nSuffice it to say, I have more direct experience with women than you, and it is clear that both you and I know it.\n\n\nPA PERMALINK\nOctober 21, 2009 1:18 pm\nSuffice it to say, I have more direct experience with women than you, and it is clear that both you and I know it.\n\nFunny thing is, until you mentioned that you are 35, I figured you for a nerdy college-aged kid. Your comments reek of earnest overcompensation and utter cluelessness about women. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?AreYouExperiencedOrExasperated END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?LetsBoycottTantricSex URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?LetsBoycottTantricSex DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20221212T230000Z DTEND:20221213T230000Z CREATED:20241213T101544Z DATE-MOD:20241213T101545Z SUMMARY:Let’s Boycott Tantric Sex! NAME:Let’s Boycott Tantric Sex! DESCRIPTION:How Pocket-Dialing Can C*ckblock You (https://bit.ly/49yWLYK)\nAttack of The Killer Ex (https://bit.ly/4g8Sg9R)\nHow To Deal With A Psycho Ex During The Holidays (https://bit.ly/3ORrrL8)\nAttention Mongers Crybabies and Dramaheads (https://bit.ly/3DfapnV)\n25 Signals You're Not Ready For a Online Dating (https://bit.ly/3DadqpB)\n5 Skills Every Man And Woman Should Master (https://bit.ly/4gcYLIz)\nCan Sex Be A Laughing Matter? (https://bit.ly/49z3q5i)\nThe Sh*t Women Say That Piss Off Men (https://bit.ly/4gbh8xB)\nDating a Jersey Shore Fan (https://bit.ly/49BHSF9)\nDealing With Exes on Valentine’s Day (https://bit.ly/4gaO7lT)\nA Decent Girl For a Nice Guy (https://bit.ly/3OXBtdG)\n\nIf you are looking for some effective and free dating advice, the best thing I can tell you right now is to avoid engaging in tantric sex with your partner if you know what’s good for you. If you ask me, tantric sex was created for women who are looking to avoid telling their male partners they cum too quickly or for women who are just too damn shy to ask their lovers to strap on a vibrating cock ring in bed.\n\nIf you’re a man and been in a relationship for a long time, you will start to notice your lady is getting a little bored with the sex. She will search online personals for tantric sex workshops and make you spend tons of money to sit in a room where you have to watch other couples around you dry hump each other while breathing in and out simultaneously and learning how to enjoy sex without ejaculating. What?!!\n\nMen do not like having to read books on how to please their women in bed. We don’t like having slow sex and breathing in and out of our noses. Tantra sex was made for affected hipsters and STING. (which made sound a little redundant.)\n\nWe like to ejaculate. We don’t care if we can have an hour long orgasm if we bring it in internally. Why the hell would we even want that? An hour long orgasm sounds like torture and we already make horrifying faces in the 3 seconds we climax. You want to endure our goofy faces for an hour?\n\nLet’s boycott tantric sex and have sex the good ol’ fashioned way. (Really, what’s so wrong with that?) \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?LetsBoycottTantricSex END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?GameOrPlayerUnpackingTheRelatio nshipBlam URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?GameOrPlayerUnpackingTheRelatio nshipBlam DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20221218T230000Z DTEND:20221219T230000Z CREATED:20241219T094628Z DATE-MOD:20241219T094629Z SUMMARY:Game or Player? Unpacking the Relationship Blame Cycle NAME:Game or Player? Unpacking the Relationship Blame Cycle DESCRIPTION:The Wingwoman (https://bit.ly/3BDqpzx)\nChange You Can Believe In: Yourself (https://bit.ly/3VEN84T)\nQuick to Pass Judgment (https://bit.ly/3VJDLkO)\nWhy Some People Hate Valentine’s Day (https://bit.ly/41z2ZGa)\nI’m Single on Valentine’s Day (https://bit.ly/41GcK5f)\nMy Secret Social Identity (https://bit.ly/41Eo164)\nWhat Exactly Is Dating? It’s Ambiguous. (https://bit.ly/49MGdNc)\nWhy Love Is Not a First Sight Thing (https://bit.ly/41DssOE)\nChivalry Makes Women Feel Good (https://bit.ly/41Ge48n)\nRelationship Experts: Hate The Player Or The Game? (https://bit.ly/3Bz0sRH)\nThe Double Standard of Men and Women (https://bit.ly/41ABtbl)\nThe Double Standard of Men and Women (https://bit.ly/3VGO20U)\nThe Double Standard of Men and Women (https://bit.ly/3BmqveY)\n8 Ways to Make a Guy Not Want to Sleep with You (https://bit.ly/41A5KHe)\n8 Ways to Make a Woman NOT Want to Sleep with You (https://bit.ly/3VGgYGr)\n\n\nI’m curious if your opinion would be different were the roles reversed; if I had been the one to ask that we wait, and she reassured me continuance was preferred, should I have told her to go fuck herself? Would her actions be considered manipulative? The concept that women don’t want/need/enjoy sex as much as men do is as archaic as the idea that women who are comfortable satisfying their lusts, are easy. I for one am eager to see both go the way of the dinosaurs.\n\nBest\nJFB\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 2 Thumb down 0\n\nReply\n\n18Themis March 5, 2010 at 1:17 PM\nIn light of the additional details, the situation was not as it first appeared in your post. I think the necessity of brevity while writing an interesting piece overlooked the specifics of her behavior you just mentioned and changed the tone of the situation, so in that case, it does appear that you continued a flow rather than forcing it.\n\nI think if the situation were reversed, my opinion would not change. Only, she would have been labeled as a tease had she not continued and a man would be labeled as – well, hm, has a situation like that ever really happened? :) Anecdotally, I have many male friends who were in that position, sex was offered on the 1st date, and even though they didn’t particularly like the female or have any intention of seeing her again, they grabbed the low hanging fruit. To them, it was scratching an itch, to her it was expressing a perceived connection that left her texting them in vain for weeks. Obviously this isn’t a SRS and the lack of communication confounded the issue. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?GameOrPlayerUnpackingTheRelationshi pBlam END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ExaminingGenderedLabelsInSexual ity URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ExaminingGenderedLabelsInSexual ity DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20221225T230000Z DTEND:20221226T230000Z CREATED:20241226T105049Z DATE-MOD:20241226T105049Z SUMMARY:Examining Gendered Labels in Sexuality NAME:Examining Gendered Labels in Sexuality DESCRIPTION:A Few Thoughts on Conflict in Dating (https://bit.ly/3VXueGD)\nWhy Trying to "Be More Feminine or Masculine" is a Trap (https://bit.ly/3VPvmfl)\n"Not Good Enough" (https://bit.ly/3BJCTWp)\nChasing After Instant Chemistry is Foolish (https://bit.ly/3VUAFdG)\nDoes Longevity in the Past = Mature Dater Today? (https://bit.ly/3BLGjba)\nAre You Really Prepared for a Relationship? (https://bit.ly/3BNkUOT)\nGuys Don’t Want to Date “One of The Guys” (https://bit.ly/3VWKPKV)\nThings I Have Learned About Dating (https://bit.ly/3VTunuK)\nFear in Dating and Relationships (https://bit.ly/3VVCVBz)\nDoes the Person You're Dating Make You Smile (https://bit.ly/3VUsWfK)\nMarrige and Happiness (https://bit.ly/3VWL2Od)\nIs Your Resolution to Find Love in the New Year? (https://bit.ly/3VXu8Ph)\nDisappearing Dates (https://bit.ly/3VQDqNe)\n\nClearly, I was suggesting that there is no reason to dedicate a day to celebrating or taking pride in one’s sexual orientation.\n\nAnd people told you why this was stupid (to reiterate, because bisexual people have been told that their bisexuality is something to be ashamed of, so celebrating bisexual pride is a way to overcome that). You responded by pretending that no one addressed your points, so perhaps you can understand why people aren’t taking you seriously.\n\nTry reading Foucault on how persecution and medicalization creates a sense of sexuality as group identity, and then get back to me.\n\nTry reading Foucault on how persecution and medicalization creates a sense of sexuality as group identity, and then get back to me.\n\nI don’t take Continental philosophy very seriously, so I don’t expect I’ll be getting back to you any time soon.\nYou ask for answers, and then you reject the ones you get, because the entire continent of Europe has not produced any thought worth your attention?\n\nYou crack me up.\n\nFrom somebody using a nym from Greek mythology to boot.\n\nP.S. It’s well past time that this sub-discussion was taken to #spillover.\n\nIs there any group identity that you feel does merit pride or any kind of commemoration by means of a parade or other public celebration?\n\nContrary to popular misconception, reason is not the primary motivator of human behavior.\n\nI’m bi, but I’m NOT a member of the queer community. ‘Queer’ is a horrible word to my ears and I don’t see why I should put up with you calling me that. Also, just because I have a certain sexuality doesn’t mean I’m part of some mythical community. I’m part of the normal community, thanks. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ExaminingGenderedLabelsInSexuality END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ReimaginingFamilyDynamicsForAMo dernWorld URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ReimaginingFamilyDynamicsForAMo dernWorld DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20230101T230000Z DTEND:20230102T230000Z CREATED:20250102T100527Z DATE-MOD:20250102T100527Z SUMMARY:Reimagining Family Dynamics for a Modern World NAME:Reimagining Family Dynamics for a Modern World DESCRIPTION:More On the Nuclear Family with Children Narrative (https://bit.ly/49YWnTO)\nLoosening the Chains of the Nuclear Family (https://bit.ly/4iX9E3k)\nKindness and Modern Dating (https://bit.ly/4iSkabY)\nHow to Navigate Uncertainty in Online Dating (https://bit.ly/4gNRM8Q)\nA Dating Suggestion to the Deeply Frustrated (https://bit.ly/3DtnDgM)\nRethinking Gender Norms in Modern Dating (https://bit.ly/49X16VV)\nObsessing About Strangers (https://bit.ly/49STOm7)\nTwo Dates in One (https://bit.ly/49UFqJW)\nTexts Or Calls And Dating (https://bit.ly/4iRFmyN)\nMen Like a Challenge (https://bit.ly/3Pc2lqL)\nMen Want to Feel Manly (https://bit.ly/4acUVxf)\nIssues with the Language of Dating Angst (https://bit.ly/4gPbSQf)\n\nListen, I’m a single gal and though I see a wedding in my future, it’s not in the near future. I have no use for this beautiful dress. Not to mention that it’s taking up room in my tiny studio. And hello, how scary would it be to bring a guy over with a wedding gown hanging outside my closet?! So, I would love to give it to someone more deserving. Maybe you have a wedding coming up and haven’t budgeted enough for a dress, or you want to dye it and turn it into your dream prom dress, I want to hear about it. Contact me (below) and tell me your story by 10/1/11, and I will choose one person to ship the dress to.\n\n\nIf you know of anyone who might be interested, drop Yue a line on her blog. Also, I encourage people to go read the story behind her getting the dress - it's quite fun.\n\nSpeaking of weddings, or non-weddings, I saw a movie the other day - Away We Go - where the issue of marriage seemed quite prominent. Specifically, what I found interesting was how the woman of the main couple in the movie repeatedly turned down her boyfriend's proposals for marriage. And she's doing this as she's pregnant with their first child.\n\nNow, there's never any sense that this couple is in trouble. That they aren't committed to each other. In fact, as the movie goes on, it becomes quite clear the filmmaker wants us to view them as "the happy ones" amongst others who are struggling, miserable, or otherwise dysfunctional. The New York Times review I linked to is quite scathing of the film's depiction, and while I agreed with some of it, I found something refreshing in featuring a healthy couple that doesn't fit the standard narrative.\n\nHowever, I also found this from near the end of the Time review compelling as well:\n\nReally, “Away We Go” is about the flight from adulthood, from engagement, from responsibility, even as it cleverly disguises itself as a search for all those things. But the dream of being left alone in a world of your own making, far from anything sad or icky or difficult, is a child’s fantasy. Not an unattractive or uncommon one, it must be said, and for that reason it is tempting to follow Burt and Verona into the precious, hermetic paradise that awaits them at the end of the road. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ReimaginingFamilyDynamicsForAModern World END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SexInSeattle URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SexInSeattle DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20220107T230000Z DTEND:20220108T230000Z CREATED:20250108T082439Z DATE-MOD:20250108T082440Z SUMMARY:SEX in Seattle? NAME:SEX in Seattle? DESCRIPTION:An Ode to Emily (https://bit.ly/4a8WpIB)\nMore Than Meets The Eyes (https://bit.ly/3PqnoFX)\nShould I Tell Her How I Feel? (https://bit.ly/40ohyLQ)\nThe Play Date (https://bit.ly/4aeydEU)\nDogs, Cats, and the Art of Dating: Lessons from the Cab Ride (https://bit.ly/4a9vj3X)\nThe Colorado Connection That Could Never Be (https://bit.ly/4aofffb)\nWhen Love Feels Like a DIY Project: The Fixer-Upper Dilemma (https://bit.ly/3PqnoWt)\nWhy Men Marry Some Women and Not Others (https://bit.ly/3DG5ug2)\nShould You Settle? (https://bit.ly/4a5OThE)\nIs There Hope For The Gender Gap? (https://bit.ly/4a3xgPz)\nCheating is a Cop Out (https://bit.ly/3Poz1x5)\nThe Dance of Second Chances (https://bit.ly/4a5TuQU)\n\nIt’s URGENT.\n\n“Hey,” he’s playing it smooth. I almost buy it. “It’s me. Call me.”\n\nOnly two face-to-face meetings with what was supposed to be a textbook one-night-stand and he’s already thrusting himself into the familiar. Thank GOD it went straight to voice-mail.\n\n… one hippopotamus… two hippopotamus… three hippopotamus… BINGO!\n\nText #1: HOW DOES SEATTLE SOUND?\n\n… one Mississippi… two Mississippi…\n\nText #2: FREE TICKET + FREE HOTEL = NICE LITTLE WEEKEND.\n\n… holy… shit…\n\nText #3: NEXT WEEKEND?\n\nIt’s plausible, but is it palpable? Two meetings. One hook up. Mr. Write chides me hourly about my “no strings attached” mantra.\n\n“Everything’s got strings attached somehow,” he grimaces. “It’s just a matter of what kinds of strings are attached and who they’re attached to.” \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SexInSeattle END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SingleGirlSurvivalSays URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SingleGirlSurvivalSays DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20220109T230000Z DTEND:20220110T230000Z CREATED:20250110T095637Z DATE-MOD:20250110T095638Z SUMMARY:Single Girl Survival Says NAME:Single Girl Survival Says DESCRIPTION:Why Is Self-Esteem Important For Dating? (https://bit.ly/4a8syQs)\nTop Free and Paid Online Dating Websites (https://bit.ly/4h6OoWZ)\nSeizing New Dating Opportunities (https://bit.ly/4ad0QC7)\nThe Perfect Movie Date at Home (https://bit.ly/3WfL6sn)\nSingle Men Don’t Have Body Image Issues (https://bit.ly/4h3rJe2)\nWhat Makes a Good Man or a Good Woman? (https://bit.ly/4hbd1lv)\nEquating ‘Sexuality’ with Male Sexuality (https://bit.ly/4h6Opdv)\nWhy in the World Would I Ever Get Married? (https://bit.ly/3Wec7MR)\nHow Jealousy Can Work For Us (https://bit.ly/4ac3OqG)\nThe Catalano Generation is Revolutionizing Dating (https://bit.ly/4a7Gf2h)\nMexico City's Short-Term Marriage Proposal (https://bit.ly/4a9mFTc)\nEven in Relationship You’re All Alone (https://bit.ly/3DKfZPt)\nI Lack the Commitment Gene (https://bit.ly/4a9jgnw)\nStop Crying and Be a Man (https://bit.ly/3DKfUeD)\n\nI am here to bring you some interesting news about Single Girl Survival.\n\nMy friend, Leigh, has decided to come aboard Single Girl Survival and help me write exciting stories about love, dating, relationships, sex and life in general! She has lots of great stories from the trenches of the Hollywood scene, and lots of great advice complete with the same cynical and sarcastic sense of humour as I do.\n\nLet’s all welcome her aboard! I will be sure to clearly identify which of us are writing which posts so you can follow our stories and rants in a sequential order. There may even be site changes on the way, who knows what kind of exciting things are in store for the future!\n\nI appreciate all of you out there reading my single girl rants! Muuah!\n\nOn a similar note, I want to send a little shout out to one of my recent ‘admirers’, because it sounds to me like he needs a little extra love. His name is ‘DRD’ and his comments to my blog posts are listed below. I am not sure how to respond to any of them because they seem a little off topic, so instead of approving the comments, I will dedicate this post to you so that you know I love you too! ;)\n\nLike Father, Like Daughter\nYou are full of contradictions, arn’t you. And you say that we, the man, are confused? I’d say that this is a two-way street, hey, we confuse you and you confuse us. What fun we are having. Here is a mommy phrase for you: “Get a life”.\nDating Tip for Guys Who Want to Get Laid\nWell, that was worthless! We already know that “girls” have an ego the size of Paris and wants the size of Macys.\nFrogs and Holidays\nWhen might you forget and forgive those match makers and get on with your life as you see fit?\nsigned: a man \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SingleGirlSurvivalSays END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?InAPerfectWorldPeopleWouldLaugh AtPorno URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?InAPerfectWorldPeopleWouldLaugh AtPorno DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20230113T230000Z DTEND:20230114T230000Z CREATED:20250114T100903Z DATE-MOD:20250114T100903Z SUMMARY:In a perfect world, people would laugh at pornography. NAME:In a perfect world, people would laugh at pornography. DESCRIPTION:Settling for Mr. “Good Enough” (https://bit.ly/40t93iw)\nCan You Really Settle for Love? 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Inevitably the photo got out and spread like wildfire.\n\nInterested in the sexual-repression side of the story, I came across this video by 1 Giant Leap, creators of my favourite film of all time, What About Me?\n\nTwo quotes that stood out to me:\n\nYou really see it in America…sexuality is so much the shadow of the culture. Because it’s not there, there’s this reverse, perverted idea is what we get to see.\n\nand…\n\nI’d say sexuality is out of balance in the world today, and I don’t think it’s female or male sexuality. I think in a perfect world, people would laugh at pornography, because everybody would be getting so much love, and so many hugs, and so many climaxes and orgasms that to even think of watching it would be kind of silly or redundant.\n\nIt’s a thinker… \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?InAPerfectWorldPeopleWouldLaughAtPo rno END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheresNothingInherentlyImmoralA boutNaked URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheresNothingInherentlyImmoralA boutNaked DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20210115T230000Z DTEND:20210116T230000Z CREATED:20250116T102447Z DATE-MOD:20250116T102448Z SUMMARY:There’s nothing inherently immoral about naked pictures. NAME:There’s nothing inherently immoral about naked pictures. 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(https://bit.ly/3PBlPFw)\n\nOh, good grief.\n\nimmorality itself is a social construct.\n\nNext you’ll assert that there’s no such thing as truth.\n\nThis.\n\nIf you took a man who lived alone his entire life I doubt he would not be able to tell the difference between an immoral and a moral act.\n\nMorality (from the Latin moralitas “manner, character, proper behavior”) is the differentiation of intentions, decisions, and actions between those that are good (or right) and those that are bad (or wrong). The philosophy of morality is ethics. A moral code is a system of morality (according to a particular philosophy, religion, culture, etc.) and a moral is any one practice or teaching within a moral code. Morality may also be specifically synonymous with “goodness” or “rightness.” Immorality is the active opposition to morality (i.e. opposition to that which is good or right), while amorality is variously defined as an unawareness of, indifference toward, or disbelief in any set of moral standards or principles.[1][2][3][4] An example of a moral code is the Golden Rule which states that, “One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself.”[5]\n\nThere’s nothing inherently immoral about naked pictures.\n1) It harms nobody.\n2) It’s not always sexual.\n3) Context is everything.\n\nThis is easier than you think. Some of my experiences:\n\nIt’s easier with girls I’ve met on OK Cupid who are 30 or younger, usually 26-23.\n\nSecondly, i usually adopt a sexual frame off the top.\n\nAfter we swap photos, I usually say\n\nMe: Interesting, you look too innocent.\n\nHer: Innocent?\n\nMe: Yah…\n\nthen take it from there. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheresNothingInherentlyImmoralAbout Naked END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ShouldIWaitForHimToGetHisMoneyR ight URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ShouldIWaitForHimToGetHisMoneyR ight DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20210121T230000Z DTEND:20210122T230000Z CREATED:20250122T074513Z DATE-MOD:20250122T074514Z SUMMARY:Should I Wait For Him To Get His Money Right? NAME:Should I Wait For Him To Get His Money Right? DESCRIPTION:3 Deadly Strategies To Use Against Cockblockers (https://bit.ly/4g49Nir)\nWhat Does Your Price Imply About Your Value? 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And if it is a thing what types of markers do men need before they can feel comfortable progressing in a relationship?\nCurious About Men And Cash\n\nDear Curious,\nAs anyone with a TV and internet access is aware of, there’s a well-publicized epidemic of singledom plaguing the Black community. In comparison to 50, sh*t, even 20 years ago, less of us are getting married, and the people who are getting married are waiting longer and longer to do it. And, it’s not like the want to be coupled up isn’t still there. If this was true—if people just didn’t want to be together anymore—How to Spell Like You’re Always Writing From a Flip Phone would the only book Tyrese would be able to publish.\n(Personally, I don’t think this—less and less people getting married—is a completely bad thing. Marriage/parenthood isn’t for everyone, and the more people ill-equipped for marriage and parenthood that realize this, the better.)\n\n\n\n\nBut, while everything from men wanting to extend the player card as long as possible to the feminist movement are cited when people ask why contemporary men may seem more reluctant to commit, from my experience the most common thing stopping men from being commitment-minded is the tenuousness of many of our job situations/finances. Basically, (most) men don’t want to entertain the idea of starting something serious unless the rest of their life is in order.\nOne of the reasons why men 40 and 50 years ago were ready to settle earlier was because you could just graduate from high school and walk into a job at a plant or a steel mill and make a pretty decent salary. Those types of jobs don’t exist anymore, and despite whatever changes there may have been in gender roles and relationship dynamics, (most) men still want to be able to provide for their loved ones, and won’t enter something serious unless they feel they’re at a place where they’re settled enough to reasonably feel that they can hold things down if they want to.\n(Also, “settled” doesn’t just mean financially secure. 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We were bouncing back and forth, the one with much cheaper drinks also had much less women, so we’d hit that one, grab a couple, down them and then bounce back across the street.\n\nHey, I’m on a budget here.\n\nNight hadn’t gone too well…. a couple of decent sets that I was able to get onto the dance floor. One fight I almost got in, because I bumped into a guy and spilled his drink. He wanted me to pay for another one. I shrugged him off and went on with my life.\n\nI had one black chick I thought was a real good set. I had her on the dance floor and had her asian friend pawned off onto Poker Playing Engineer, but when I went for the make-out, I got a rejection coupled with the “I have a boyfriend” line.\n\nTo which, I said something stupid like, “where’s your boyfriend?”\n\nShe said, “at home.”\n\nI said, “exactly. he’s not here” and tried to make out with her again. At this point, she stopped dancing with me and went and grabbed her friend off of Poker Playing Engineer and that was the last I saw of them. Oops.\n\nThe night was ending uneventfully. Tall Spanish Guy had already left and Poker Playing Engineer were about ready to leave by about 3am. We were heading out the door, when a two set I couldn’t pass up walked by me.\n\nI look at Poker Playing Engineer, “hold on man, let’s go approach them.”\n\n“I thought we were leaving.”\n\n“Yeah, we are. One more set, if it doesn’t go anywhere, we leave. What’s the harm in trying?”\n\n“Alright,” he gives in.\n\nI barrel back after the two set. Approach them both and interrupt their conversation and casually place my hands on each of their shoulders to get their attentions. I talk for a bit, introduce myself and then bring my wing in, isolate my target, chat with her and then extract her to the dance floor.\n\nAt this point, I can’t tell if she’s Asian or Hispanic. Doesn’t matter. She’s gorgeous.\n\nI talk to her some more while I dance with her, she’s 19. She’s tiny as fuck. Damn her waist is so small, I can’t stop grabbing it.\n\nA couple of songs in and we’re making out. I hit her with the dirty talk in her ear and she makes out with some more, then pulls back and grabs her phone and lifts it up and turns the light on.\n\n“Hold on, I want to see what you look like…” she says.\n\nAfter she looks me over with her cell phone light, she goes back to making out with me. I number close her now, early, and then extract her back off of the dance floor. Then, back to the dance floor. Leading her all around for no real reason at all.\n\nMore dancing, more making out, more “I’m going to fuck the shit out of you” type of talk and she’s loving every minute of it.\n\nBut, eventually Poker Playing Engineer blows it out with her friend and they’re ready to leave. We head out too. Call it a night.\n\nWhen I get home, she texts me\n\nHer, 3:34 am: This is [her name] what’s your name\n\nMe, 3:48 am: Willy Wonka\n\nHer, 3:51 am: Are you foreighn? [What? I've never gotten that one before..... lol]\n\nMe, 3:58 am: No. I’m from [this city]… my mother is Polish though… you?\n\nHer, 4:03 am: I’m from [some town]\n\nI let the convo die there…. 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This guy is so controlled by is wife and such a chicken about her. He’s afraid to go out without her calling him. Kind of feel like he went out with me to spite her, a little act of rebellion but his own private rebellion she will never know about. I feel sorry for him because he IS in a loveless relationship but so afraid to destroy his children with is admirable but given that I lived that for 4 years well I think he’s just a coward. I don’t understand why anyone would stay in a miserable, sexless relationship for more than 5 years. Apparently it was never great in the sex department, ever, but he’s so used to it until recently he started thinking about sex, just sex. He’s a nice guy, a good guy but I also wonder if his wife isn’t using sex as a weapon to either punish him, control him or perhaps like me, she doesn’t love him either and just too chicken to say anything. When we love someone we are supposed to be in love with them as well as in lust with them. Its how we got into the position of marriage anyway. I know I was totally in love and lust with my husband until the day I decided this had to end. I can’t understand anyone being married and not having sex? WTF is that? The best thing about marriage is all the sex you get with your hot amazing partner right?\n\nThat’s all I have to say whether anyone thinks I’m wrong or not.\n\nNoSexNoMoreLove2 (https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?NoSexNoMoreLove2/edit&newpage= 1&theme=margot&squelette=1col.tpl.html&style=margot.css) years ago\nSad that this guy is literally dumping his feelings to a stranger on some dating/hookup app than to his wife or better yet a therapist. I really hope that the women on there stick to their guns and no one gets with him. Sigh….losing faith in men altogether, but esp the married ones with the wandering eye! Gross!\n\nHesBarkingUpTheWrongTree6 (https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?HesBarkingUpTheWrongTree6/edit& ;newpage=1&theme=margot&squelette=1col.tpl.html&style=margot.c ss) years agoReply\nCrazy, right? I just felt like I needed to understand why married men troll dating sites.\n\nEmily Macintosh6 (https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Macintosh6/edit&newpage=1& theme=margot&squelette=1col.tpl.html&style=margot.css) years ago\nCongratulations sweetheart. There is a club for women who expect marriage or the woman, or both, will somehow change a man. 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(atelier 3)\n\n\n\n\n*Ces ateliers sont financés par le dispositif DEFFINOV AURA de la Région et de l'Union Européenne en faveur des innovations et coopérations entre organismes de formation, tiers-lieux et acteurs économiques publics et privés des territoires.\n\n\n\n\n S'inscrire (https://framaforms.org/ateliers-pour-organismes-et-acteurs-de-la-formatio n-1740038149) \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Ateliers123StrategieDirigeantsCampu sC LOCATION:Campus Connecté, 17a rue de Tourville 84600 Valréas GEO:44.38644615112116;4.98456450879083 END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?DatingAppsAndMentalHealthAreWeS wipingOu URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?DatingAppsAndMentalHealthAreWeS wipingOu DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20220220T230000Z DTEND:20220221T230000Z CREATED:20250221T093741Z DATE-MOD:20250221T093742Z SUMMARY:Dating Apps and Mental Health Are We Swiping Ourselves into Anxiety NAME:Dating Apps and Mental Health Are We Swiping Ourselves into Anxiety DESCRIPTION:I Travel The World. 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But you can’t walk down all 3 as far as you want to find anything good (unless sex is the only good) so you have to pick one at some point. Some do this sooner then later.\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 40 Thumb down 8\n\nReply\n\n\nDrivingMeNutes (https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?DrivingMeNutes/edit&newpage=1& amp;theme=margot&squelette=1col.tpl.html&style=margot.css) Says:\nJanuary 16th, 2012 at 1:40 pm\nIf commitment weren’t scary, it wouldn’t be commitment. The word implies sacrifice of something of consequence. What you’re describing is a “trial period” with a money back guarantee, ie the exact opposite of commitment. I agree, if there’s nothing really invested then there’s no real harm when things go badly. Why are we even discussing this then?\n\nHot debate. What do you think? Thumb up 12 Thumb down 15\n\nReply\n\n\nmyself Says:\nJanuary 16th, 2012 at 2:27 pm\nI think committing early is scary because you really don’t know the other person too well, they say it takes a few months for people to truly relax and be themselves and then you find out what their real personality is like.\n\nCarina, I am not a sleep with people frivolously person either, but neither will I ever expect someone will commit to me within a week. I agree with Moxie that he “committed” to get what he wanted. He may do it with everyone.\n\nJust be careful and keep your eyes open and don’t make any huge life altering decisions this early in the game.\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 13 Thumb down 1\n\nReply \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?DatingAppsAndMentalHealthAreWeSwipi ngOu END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?YouHaveAGreatAttitudeGirl URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?YouHaveAGreatAttitudeGirl DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20210224T230000Z DTEND:20210225T230000Z CREATED:20250225T093941Z DATE-MOD:20250225T093942Z SUMMARY:You have a great attitude, girl. NAME:You have a great attitude, girl. DESCRIPTION:The Top 10 White Lies People Tell In Online Dating Profiles (https://bit.ly/3D2ANld)\nThings I Wish I Knew About Dating When I Was 22 (https://bit.ly/41vh1rX)\n8 Reasons You’re Single (https://bit.ly/4iep6qp)\nLet’s Talk About Negging (https://bit.ly/4ig4Bth)\nWhat Are Your Pre-Date Nerves? 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In my younger years back east, I was a big brother to two boys who lived in dreadful circumstances. As stupid as this sounds, I was inspired by the a cliche movie that Keanu Reeves did way back when about an inner city little league team. Right then I decided to get off my ass and give back a little. It was a most rewarding experience and I got to help two kids through an otherwise unguided adolescence, coach some baseball and just try to help two kids have a semblance of childhood as I knew it. It would be arrogant to compare it to parenting, but I now have two little brothers for life and Lord knows it’s been rewarding beyond description. For me, the experience affirmed a belief that, should biological children not be in the cards, I could love and raise a child that was not my own biologically just the same. In some ways, a child you take in will be even be more rewarding and more bonded than a biological child, because those children will eventually know exactly what was lost and what they have gained. So my travel schedule and insatiable enjoyment of the fairer sex has not been conducive to starting a family as yet, but it just goes to show that many people, even some you might not suspect, have a lot to give to the unwanted children in this world. Where I diverge in my opinion with clj and Kelly is that, for the vast majority of people, they can tell themselves all they want about a fulfilling life without children; however the cold reality is that 99% of us want/need the companionship of a family, the laughter of children, the unconditional love that goes two ways and fulfillment you simply cannot get without it. You can be a big brother, you can be a cool aunt, you can be an inspiring teacher – but none of these things is a substitute for what the soul really needs. Emily, I always champion your efforts at love, and every yo yo who reads this blog knows you are the real deal. So I’m not worried about you as much as you might be right now. Things will turn your way and will happen quickly when they do. Maybe even with your boy Single Steve, but more likely with PFC, or a reasonable facsimile. 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(https://bit.ly/3FhnSwB)\nWhen a Relationship Feels Like a Secret Mission (https://bit.ly/3Ffy1tE)\nPushing Through It (https://bit.ly/41HLdPc)\nEmbracing The Unexpected Path Of Singlehood (https://bit.ly/4bIFWvv)\nWhy Is It So Hard to Believe Someone Might Stay? (https://bit.ly/3DzQ6SD)\nAm I Crazy Or Is He A Hot Mess? (https://bit.ly/3XDyxI4)\n\nSignature Qualities:\nBad pickup lines in subways; insomnia; knuckle cracking\n\nFamous Bowl Dwellers:\nNapoleon, Muddy Waters, Bettie Page, Grover Cleveland, Virginia Wolfe\n\nYour Reading:\nYou convince yourself that you need love in order to be happy, so you seek and eventually find yourself in a relationship. This lasts a few weeks, maybe a month, when you realize how much work and perhaps money it takes to be in love – so you bail. You are hooked on the honeymoon state of a relationship – those first four or five dates – but when it matures into something of meaning and responsibility, you’re outta there. You can’t take rejection, and when it happens you pursue that person with increased gusto, fueled by your father’s story of how he landed your mom with sheer determination. This never really works out for you, though. When in a relationship, you consider the “relationship” a third person that you both need to heed and acknowledge. The problem is, you have deep hatred for this third person causing you to murder it (the relationship) immediately. You are the type that makes New Year’s resolutions, and follows them, until you forget what they were two weeks later.\n\nI once saw a cat try its damnedest to murder a nun. The cat, with whom I eventually formed a synergistic, if not loving, relationship due to long term co-habitation, was an asshole, but he was an entertaining asshole, and never did learn that if he concentrated on chasing the laser pointer, he wouldn’t notice that he was gaiting full tilt towards the wall.\n\nBut he was an asshole. Face it ladies, all cats are, even the girl ones. Which is why it is time for you all to face facts: no matter what we say to women of the world, us boys do not like your cats. Whats that, you say? Every boy you’ve ever brought home has said he liked Mr. Fluffykins? You can’t possibly be that naive. He was trying to get to your kitty through your pussy.\n\nBoys don’t like cats. Case in point, you’ve never met one who owns one who wasn’t at least a bit… off. Cats don’t even like cats. What, you have two? Maybe they’ll put on a little pussy-on-pussy show to get a treat, but the minute your back is turned sister, it’s all fur and fangs, and not in a good way. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?WhyWomenSayMenDontCommunicateWhileM enS END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?IsItEasierForSingleDadsToDateTh anSingl URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?IsItEasierForSingleDadsToDateTh anSingl DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20220313T230000Z DTEND:20220314T230000Z CREATED:20250314T152718Z DATE-MOD:20250314T152718Z SUMMARY:Is It Easier for Single Dads to Date Than Single Moms NAME:Is It Easier for Single Dads to Date Than Single Moms DESCRIPTION:Is He Assertive or Just Angry? (https://bit.ly/3DGDSYk)\nWhy I’m Done Playing by Traditional Dating Rules (https://bit.ly/4bPGeAK)\nModern Romance: The New Dating Rules (https://bit.ly/4iFx6kI)\nCan You Spot the Four Types of Men Out There? (https://bit.ly/4itFjbF)\nWhat to Do When a Friendship Becomes Toxic (https://bit.ly/3FECPbT)\nHow to Take Advantage of Being Single (https://bit.ly/4itS7yR)\nHe Acted Like He Was Still Single (https://bit.ly/4bPGeRg)\nFollowing My Dream Nearly Cost Me My Marriage (https://bit.ly/4kRzWVl)\n\n\nAnd lastly, I have been on dates with women who are seriously only out there dating for free meals/drinks and I think of these women as escorts without the putting out part. And those women are giving other women a bad name because it’s making more men in my generation wary of paying because we wonder if the girl is only going out with us to get a meal because she has no self respect.\n\nOne girl I went out with, we had our date and she actually whipped out her wallet and demanded to pay her 50%. She thought it was bullshit that women expected men to pay, and she wasn’t a whore.\n\nMaybe she just didn’t want to sleep with me, but I was surprised when she said, “please don’t fight with me on this one, let me pay my half.”\n\nSad because we had no connection or spark. But she was super cool.\n\nReply\n\nCali Bradshaw\nMarch 21, 2011 at 8:27 pm #\nAh yes, let me clarify, once you are in relationship land – that is a different story. And I think that has a different set of rules for each couple. This is purely in regards to the beginning dating/courtship. Sounds like you are a classy guy though, so really you don’t need this advice!\n\nReply\n\nRicky\nMarch 21, 2011 at 8:39 pm #\nChivalry is a definite lost act, though in the changing climate I feel there should be a class given on how to date in today’s world. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?IsItEasierForSingleDadsToDateThanSi ngl END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SalonVivreIciEtudierTravaillerE tHabite URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SalonVivreIciEtudierTravaillerE tHabite DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20251119T090000Z DTEND:20251119T190000Z CREATED:20250220T111737Z DATE-MOD:20250315T175553Z SUMMARY:Salon Vivre ici : étudier, travailler et habiter en Drôme Provençale NAME:Salon Vivre ici : étudier, travailler et habiter en Drôme Provençale DESCRIPTION:Un salon réunissant de nombreuses initiatives et institutions locales à destination :\n\n\n\n des entreprises et employeurs locaux souhaitant mettre en vitrine leur offre\n des familles et apprenants souhaitant se former, étudier sur place\n des demandeurs d'emplois cherchant des pistes locales\n des porteurs de projets et nouveaux habitants souhaitant s'installer, entreprendre ou encore améliorer leurs vies sur place.\n \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SalonVivreIciEtudierTravaillerEtHab ite LOCATION:Maison de Pays 26110 Nyons GEO:44.3566536;5.1352553849884615 END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?HowToHandleDifferentParentingSt ylesWithou URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?HowToHandleDifferentParentingSt ylesWithou DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20220316T230000Z DTEND:20220317T230000Z CREATED:20250317T154626Z DATE-MOD:20250317T154627Z SUMMARY:How to Handle Different Parenting Styles Without Destroying Your Marriage NAME:How to Handle Different Parenting Styles Without Destroying Your Marriage DESCRIPTION:He Cheats on Me During Business Trips (https://bit.ly/3FzAU8H)\nHe Cheated with a Woman from the Gym (https://bit.ly/4kybJUa)\nHe Dotes On His Son and Ignores Me (https://bit.ly/4kybKrc)\nHe Didn't Know How to Listen to Her (https://bit.ly/4kUHFSz)\nHe Flirts Too Much (https://bit.ly/43N1QM8)\nMarriage Advice: 13 Lessons (https://bit.ly/3Dx1wGV)\nSeparate Vacations Don’t Have to Mean Divorce (https://bit.ly/3XV0kDU)\nAre Soul Mates Fact or Fiction? (https://bit.ly/3DyQ39M)\nLove vs. Parenthood: When the Perfect Partner Doesn’t Want Kids (https://bit.ly/4kybNTU)\nCaring for Dad Is Destroying My Marriage (https://bit.ly/4kUHHKb)\nFirst Date: Who Pays and What It Really Means (https://bit.ly/3DJU37i)\nDating a Dad: When You Like Him But Not His Kid (https://bit.ly/3Dv3Kqg)\n\n\nSo that leads to proportionate to income paying on dates, more or less. Any time a guy pays more than that post bang, he’s signaling he’s a beta provider type guy, and makes himself less sexually attractive to her. Maybe attractive as a good dad, but as for me, no thanks.\n\nReply\n\nMr. Traditional\nApril 6, 2011 at 2:44 pm #\nAs a man I always expect to pay for dates – and for the most part that is how I like it. My rule is: I offer to pay, or just go to pay it. If the girl offers to pay I appreciate it and pay it anyway. If she insists twice – she pays it.\n\nI don’t like it if the girl reads the check. If I’m paying, it is a gift because I like you, so the cost should not be a concern for her.\n\nSome women insist on splitting everything or on alternating who pays. I’ll tolerate the alternation thing – but I don’t like it.\n\nI won’t tolerate check splitting on a regular basis. It is unsexy to be splitting things down to the dollar level like that.\n\nI like feminine women which is why I like paying for dinner dates. I know it makes you feel special – so it is my pleasure to treat you.\n\nAnd of course I do the asking, I open doors for you, I buy you nice things on valentine’s day, your birthday, and christmas. I pay for our weekend getaways. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?HowToHandleDifferentParentingStyles Withou END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheImportanceOfDateNightsPriori tizingYou URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheImportanceOfDateNightsPriori tizingYou DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20240317T230000Z DTEND:20240318T230000Z CREATED:20250318T164425Z DATE-MOD:20250318T164425Z SUMMARY:The Importance of Date Nights: Prioritizing Your Relationship NAME:The Importance of Date Nights: Prioritizing Your Relationship DESCRIPTION:He Had an Affair Because I Stopped Initiating Sex (https://bit.ly/3DzDL0U)\nHe Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat (https://bit.ly/4hiX8sN)\nHe Lost Interest in Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/3DJhz4p)\nSaving A Marriage: He Lost His Job (https://bit.ly/4hkeh5t)\nHe Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I'm Sick of It (https://bit.ly/4ie35sj)\nCommitment Jitters (https://bit.ly/3DPhuME)\nLove and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance (https://bit.ly/3FBCVkF)\nBi Bi Love (https://bit.ly/4heaIh2)\nDealing With Your Partner’s Bedroom Confessions (https://bit.ly/42ejPd6)\nCan His Squalor Be Squelched? (https://bit.ly/3DL0vLm)\nAsunder Down Under (https://bit.ly/43Zhkwy)\nConquering Long Distance Dating (https://bit.ly/4iaTwKD)\nCoveting a Coworker (https://bit.ly/3FBCVBb)\n\nCali Bradshaw\nOctober 28, 2011 at 3:26 am #\nAw Kelsey, you are the best! You know, it’s funny, but when people leave harsh comments, I doubt they realize how hurtful they actually are. When I write a saucy post, it isn’t about one person, or it isn’t addressed to that one person at least. But when I get personal comments, it makes my tummy hurt a little bc people who don’t know me at all, are making comments about who I am as a person. At the end of the day, this blog is supposed to be fun, so when someone tells me that I need to get over myself or I’ll be single in my 30s, (and that is not nearly as mean as many comments) it really bums me out. But when I then see that I have a reader (you!) defend me, when you don’t even know me, seriously makes my night. Thank you for making me smile and reminding me that I am not alone in wishing for a quality man. XO. -Cali\n\nReply\n\nKelsey\nOctober 29, 2011 at 12:40 am #\nEver so welcome. I dislike posts started just for the sake of causing drama. This is not high school. Believe me, I know, because I’m still in one half the day. :P\n\nHaha aw to be young again! I wish I was still in HS. Those were the days!\n\n\nNorwegian blend\nWell, honestly I think you were a bit unfair yourself. While it is not ok to make assumptions about you (or anyone else for the sake of being), the post that you’ve just made may easily be interpreted as provocative. You clearly addressed a whole lot of guys in that post, the ones that frequently use abbreviations and emoticons after which you described them in a derogatory manner, making comparisons to being twelve years old. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?TheImportanceOfDateNightsPrioritizi ngYou END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?WhatsInAMaritalStatusAnyway URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?WhatsInAMaritalStatusAnyway DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20220319T230000Z DTEND:20220320T230000Z CREATED:20250320T161112Z DATE-MOD:20250320T161112Z SUMMARY:What’s in a marital status, anyway? NAME:What’s in a marital status, anyway? DESCRIPTION:He Went to War and Came Back a Changed Man (https://bit.ly/4bCTPeO)\nUnmasking Hidden Unhappiness in Marriage (https://bit.ly/3XYmpBu)\nWorkaholic Heartbreak: When Success Costs Your Marriage (https://bit.ly/4hmImRV)\nRecession Realities: When Financial Stress Tests a Marriage (https://bit.ly/4kACG9E)\nWhen Unemployment Tests Marriage (https://bit.ly/3RgepYW)\nMovies That All Women Should See To Understand Men (https://bit.ly/3RhVRaJ)\nLove Lies and Responsibility (https://bit.ly/3Y0Q64V)\nThe Dating Mishaps of the Ladies of Love Twenty (https://bit.ly/3DTY35d)\nThe Black Male Preference Privilege (https://bit.ly/3RoJzxb)\nAnatomy of a Great (Reality) Relationship (https://bit.ly/3RjLaV4)\nYour Rear End or Your Pride (https://bit.ly/3DQedfU)\nWhy Splitting Costs Isn't Splitting Love (https://bit.ly/3Y24B8F)\n(Broken) Laws of Attraction (https://bit.ly/3RgxeLs)\n\n“When are you getting married?”\n\n“You have a new boyfriend yet?”\n\n“Don’t you feel alone on weekends?”\n\nBeing single in a couple’s word is not easy. I wonder why people keep judging others so much by their marital status. Yes, singles are on the rise, more people are getting divorced and more and more people are now considering the fact of living and staying alone. Yet it’s still a couple’s world out there, and many still believe that single = looser. But who says us singles can’t enjoy life? There is so much to look to when you’re alone. Being single is ME time and should be enjoyed to the fullest. So don’t fall into the ‘I have to get married’ mindset and start appreciating what life has to offer, with or without a partner. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?WhatsInAMaritalStatusAnyway END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?MyMorningRoutine URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?MyMorningRoutine DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20230323T230000Z DTEND:20230324T230000Z CREATED:20250324T163622Z DATE-MOD:20250324T163622Z SUMMARY:My Morning Routine NAME:My Morning Routine DESCRIPTION:Surviving a Long-Term Affair and Saving a Marriage (https://bit.ly/41V0MU7)\nTransforming Communication and Parenting in a Troubled Marriage (https://bit.ly/4iwlwbV)\nHealing a Marriage by Confronting Insecurities and Building Trust (https://bit.ly/4c037lm)\nReligious Differences and Strengthening Marriage Bonds (https://bit.ly/4kSx1Mh)\nThe Affection Gap: Bridging Emotional Distance in a Long-Term Marriage (https://bit.ly/4bUogNH)\nWorkplace Dating Detours (https://bit.ly/4bUohkJ)\nWhen Blind Dates Go Wrong (https://bit.ly/4bUohRL)\nComfort Vs. Fulfillment In Modern Dating (https://bit.ly/4bUoiFj)\nDemanding Respect and Openness in a Relationship (https://bit.ly/41R8Y7P)\nGet Outta My Dating Pool (https://bit.ly/4bVNmvE)\nSeeking Clarity and Connection in Dating (https://bit.ly/4iFRbaL)\nGym Flirting 101 (https://bit.ly/4izaKBE)\nFinding Balance in Love After Loss (https://bit.ly/41Yixlv)\n\nI wanted to share with you how I start my day. I have already discussed that I am not a morning person. I do not enjoy getting up before the sun does. I do not enjoy getting out of my warm bed, crawling from under my giant down comforter and putting on cold clothes. I hate my feet being cold and getting out of bed means cold feet...therefore I'm not happy about it. I usually set my alarm for as late as humanly possible, making it impossible to snooze my alarm. I drag myself out of bed, use the bathroom, brush my teeth, re-scrunch my curly crazy hair, throw on the first set of jeans and t-shirt combo I come across, socks and shoes follow. I throw on a hoodie and grab my huge coach purse (seriously carpet bag sized with EVERYTHING in it) and then head for the door. I grumble a good morning to my grandmother and then brave the cold fall weather as I trudge to the car port.\n\nThat is me, every week day morning. I don't have to dress up to nanny. I don't have to be all dolled up. Usually I appreciate this as it allows me extra sleep time. I always have makeup necessities in my purse so sometimes I'll do up my makeup once at work. Sometimes I dress up if I have plans right after work...but these days are rare. Normally I save my makeup and my nice clothes for weekends and that's just fine with me.\n\nAnyway, the point of this blog was to share with you something I DON'T do. I don't pay any attention to my mirror. I rarely give myself a good look, let alone take in the lovingly laminated and posted quotes on my mirror. I am mad at myself for this. I put them there for a reason. These affirmations were meant to start my day right, everyday. To send me to bed in the right frame of mind, every night. I don't do this anymore and this is my self scolding.\n\nI had one of those day by day flip calenders and when they struck me I would rip them off and keep them in a folder for when I needed inspiration. I would write them down in a journal just for quotes from movies, songs, etc that moved me. At one point these words were so important to me that I felt I should see them everyday...so why did I stop paying attention?\n\nHere is what I am talking about:\n\n\nI don't think I have to say why this quote means a lot to me. I know it's kind of cheesy to have this on my mirror, but I really do believe in these words. I think it's important to remember to not waste the time we are given, to make sure our day means something, that we mean something to somebody else every single day. It reminds me to say, "I love you" every time I feel it and to say "thank you" every time I mean it.\n\n\n\n\nAlright, the top quote was put up there in a rough time. I was quitting my corporate job for nannying, contemplating going back to school, terrified to really make a go at writing, and wondering where the heck my life was going. It was important for me to remember that my parents weren't going to be thrilled I was throwing away my degree to nanny. And that my grandmother would probably never get to read half of my writing as she'd be horrified at most of what I have to say. I had to remember that if I was happy then that's all that really mattered.\n\n\n\nThe bottom quote is meaningful because I need to remember that if I want to succeed, if I want to move forward in life that I need to try new things. That I need to make the first step and without fear of where it will take me, to live in the moment. Honestly it really is just a rewording of the quote underneath.\n\n\nThis quote was and still is important in making me overcome my everyday fears that seek to hold me back. The same fears I wrote about in "My Largest Obstacle: Myself". I have to remind myself non stop to getting in my own way. To just do it, do it because I can, and not worry about where it might go. It's important to remember that I can't always be perfect, I can't be great at everything, but I can sure as shit try.\n\nSo here it is. I just blogged on being more present, being more aware of the world around me, more engaged. So, how is it that I am ignoring things that stare me in the face everyday, several times a day!? I guess the task starts at home. I'm going to try and take more time in the morning to be more aware of these quotes, to go back to repeating them out loud and making sure I really "see" them.\n\nThat is my promise to myself, and if I say it out loud...or write it out loud to all of you then you will hold me to it. You will yell at me in comments to "READ YOUR DAMN QUOTES JEWELS!" and that will keep me honest and real about my task to stay more present in my own life. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?MyMorningRoutine END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?MakingNewFriendsLeadsToAllSorts OfOpport URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?MakingNewFriendsLeadsToAllSorts OfOpport DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20240324T230000Z DTEND:20240325T230000Z CREATED:20250325T165637Z DATE-MOD:20250325T165637Z SUMMARY:Making New Friends Leads to All Sorts of Opportunities NAME:Making New Friends Leads to All Sorts of Opportunities DESCRIPTION:His Ex is Ruining Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/4iU1lnV)\nBalancing Step-Parenting and Marital Harmony (https://bit.ly/4hG6rmS)\nRebuilding a Marriage in the Sandwich Generation Squeeze (https://bit.ly/4c3uknc)\nA Marriage Tested by Cancer (https://bit.ly/4iVjyS2)\nHis Business Crashed — And So Did Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/424burw)\nDating a Recovering Alcoholic (https://bit.ly/4bWTZOh)\nIs It Weird to Date a Relative? (https://bit.ly/4c0TToX)\nHis Cheatin’ Heart (https://bit.ly/4j03zCn)\nWhat’s Our Relationship Status? (https://bit.ly/4iGUS04)\nShould You Give an Ex a Second Chance? (https://bit.ly/4c0Ty5F)\nLong-Distance Love vs. Local Connection (https://bit.ly/4c0x7gM)\nTrust in a Strained Marriage: Letters in the Attic (https://bit.ly/4iYl464)\nDating Rules: Smart Strategy or Outdated Nonsense? (https://bit.ly/4c6JiIX)\n\nI have a theory that if all the people who note on their dating profiles that they "love to take long walks on the beach" actually took them, there would be no need for dating services. They'd meet other people who love taking long walks on the beach, and who knows where that would lead.\n\nBut if you hate taking long walks on the beach, surely you like doing other things. So do them. Even if it's knitting, join a group and go. You don't know who's mother or sister is going to befriend you there.\n\nMy friend, Kristen, is a writer (among other things) who took to working from a table at Panera Bread over a year ago. Since she's hardly alone in this, she's since met a commercial artist, a doctor/astrologer (yes!), another writer, and most recently "two really cute guys who know all about computers." Kristen's married, so she's not in the market to meet two really cute guys, but surely somebody else is.\n\nIf time constraints prevent you from hanging out in coffee shops, don't despair. I made two lasting friends in other countries through Irish Penpals, a free service that connects you with other people of either sex (your choice, and nobody has to be Irish).\n\nAt the time I joined, I spent most winter days trapped in the house with two toddlers and was eager to "meet" a new international friend. I've been writing to Elaine in Manchester, England and Petra in Germany ever since.\n\nIrish Penpals reports that at least one marriage has resulted from the service.\n\nViveca Stone-Berry, who founded Dog Captions cards with her photographer brother Richard H. Stone, recommends that you make a friend of a serviceperson through A Million Thanks (http://www.amillionthanks.org). (http://www.amillionthanks.org).)\n\nIf you express your appreciation to someone in our military, you'll be doing a good and worthwhile thing. Good and worthwhile things often lead to more good and worthwhile things -- one way or another. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?MakingNewFriendsLeadsToAllSortsOfOp port END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ThisIsSeriousShesMySoulmate URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ThisIsSeriousShesMySoulmate DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20220326T230000Z DTEND:20220327T220000Z CREATED:20250327T163448Z DATE-MOD:20250327T163449Z SUMMARY:THIS IS SERIOUS, SHE’S MY SOULMATE! NAME:THIS IS SERIOUS, SHE’S MY SOULMATE! DESCRIPTION:Marriage vs. Addiction: Winning the Battle for Love (https://bit.ly/4j71lkI)\nMarriage Without Intimacy: Can Love Survive the Distance? (https://bit.ly/3Y176Ig)\nHolding On or Letting Go: When Addiction Tests a Marriage (https://bit.ly/3RlpxUo)\nThe Marriage We Almost Lost: How Unemployment Changed Everything (https://bit.ly/3QRZeFf)\nMarriage And Chaos: Finding Common Ground in Parenting (https://bit.ly/3DWXmIn)\nHe Seemed Interested. So Why Didn’t He Call? (https://bit.ly/3DUscBy)\nOnline Dating Isn’t Desperation (https://bit.ly/4j5nIH7)\nChanging Your Dating Approach (https://bit.ly/4iRfgeP)\nWhy Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever (https://bit.ly/4c3yRWJ)\nDating Someone With Debt (https://bit.ly/4iXYkD2)\nMarriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby (https://bit.ly/41JHmCI)\nThe Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment (https://bit.ly/3Xw23iW)\nHow to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray (https://bit.ly/3DTawpM)\n\nSo……yeaaaaah. Really strange night. I mean, his whole idea is like ‘if you can successfully control yourself and — somehow — turn around a situation where people just fucking hate you on principle….what can stop you?’ Anyway…it was a really weird night. As you can imagine….my AA was in serious overdrive. Ted forced me into a set two girls, three guys, and it was fucking ridiculous. Liiiiike, there was this raunchy auburn haired cowgirl who probably called me a nigger like a bajillion times, and I mean….I just didn’t know how to handle it. She also asked insane questions, like ‘how big is your cock?’ ‘would you like me to suck that nigger dick?’ She was a 5…but the set was mixed, so I had literally NO CLUE how to fucking handle it. I was a Scraymouse.\n\nTed is some sort of insane person. Like…one of the dudes at one point was like ‘this goddamned anchor baby beaner,’ and Ted throws his head back, ‘yeah, all right, gomer pyle, bob hope eat a dick whoever the fuck you are…’ and everyone laughed their asses off.\n\nMy question now….I mean, that was an extremely uncomfortable environment for me. But at the same time…like, Ted just handled it like a goddamned champion. Is there something to his theory, or is Ted insane…or both?\n\nSaturday:\n\nI lost my ID at CW bar. I was planning on not going out, but there was an event at a club that 90% of the school social circle were attending. So…why not? I snag a paper copy of my driver’s license from my job and just decide to run a gambit.\n\nIt works, and I get in to the club with everyone else.\n\nOnly one set, and really, it’s a girl I somewhat know already. She’s been with two of the guys in my social circle already. She’s like a 6.5. I talk with her at the bar. So, my new thing that I’ve been trying out has been break-up/make-up. It goes really well with ‘I love you.’\n\nEarlier, I had told her friend that I was going to spread a rumor that she was engaged to an Argentenian wiffle ball player named Rodrigo. So, I tell 6.5 to make sure she goes back to her friend and asks about Rodrigo. Then I just am like, also, tell your friend that I’m in crazy mad crazy love with her. And 6.5 laughs, and I’m like ‘THIS IS SERIOUS, SHE’S MY SOULMATE!’ Her eyes widen, and she nods. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ThisIsSeriousShesMySoulmate END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?WhenItRains URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?WhenItRains DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20220327T220000Z DTEND:20220328T220000Z CREATED:20250328T155625Z DATE-MOD:20250328T155625Z SUMMARY:When it rains... NAME:When it rains... DESCRIPTION:Marriage vs. Memories: Can We Declutter and Stay Together? 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I have quite a few dates lined up in the near future – there’s a chance that I may become overwhelmed – or at the very least confused as far as what stories I’ve shared with whom. But at this point, I’m feeling quite flirty and non-committal, so my plan is to have fun while it lasts.\n\nThe current lineup:\n\nEarlier this week, I went on my 106th first date since my last serious relationship ended three years ago. Date #106 was with Fun Bobby – it was a very easy-going, good time. I felt as if I’d known him for longer than the few hours we spent together – but I wonder if I’m projecting – he looks a little like my friend, Good Hair Guy. (I’ve given him this moniker of “Fun Bobby” because his profile indicates that he’s a little unsure if he’s looking for a serious relationship right now – I’ve considered myself warned!)\n\nWithin a few days he e-mailed to say he’d had a lovely time, and asked if I was free to get together again this weekend. Plans are in place.\n\nThen there’s Good Voice – date number two is set for next week. I can’t help but compare him to TC, who was in limbo with his career, and felt that that translated to his overall life (including dating). GV is very much together – quite successful, in fact – and this is refreshing in comparison. I certainly would never date a guy just because he was well-off – but I feel that I’ve reached a certain level of success in my career, so it’s not unreasonable to want the same in a potential partner. (obviously, he has many other qualities that I like – otherwise, I wouldn’t be considering a second date with him!)\n\nAnother newbie is Neighbor Dude, who lives just a few blocks from me. Good connection so far via e-mail and during first phone convo – plans are in place for this weekend. It’s hard to get a read on his pics – one is rather attractive, the other, less so.\n\nThen there’s U.N. – remember him, from last summer? We’ve been in touch recently, and have plans for a drink next week. I have a feeling this will be a platonic get-together – BUT I liked him as a person that last time (just didn’t feel that ‘zing’) – I’m willing to take another chance to see if there’s any chance of zing. If not, he’s the kind of person I could see keeping as a friend.\n\nOne more: the FOF – Friend of a Friend (note: I initially gave him a different name, but worried that it might be too identifying). Background: we had one date last month, but he said he needed more time “off” after his recent breakup. I respected that, and appreciated his honesty. I wrote to him recently with a work-related question – after a few e-mails, we made plans to meet for a drink next week. I’m going into this with the mindset that it may just be platonic – but if something were to happen? That would be a nice bonus – I can’t explain it, there’s something I like about this guy. Maybe it’s because we have a friend in common, which makes him less anonymous than the guys I meet through the internet?\n\nOh – I have my eye on one more: I’m going to call him MySpace (https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?MySpace/edit&newpage=1&the me=margot&squelette=1col.tpl.html&style=margot.css) page, I immediately fell in “like” with his pictures (as much as a sane 30-something reasonably can!). Great head of hair, nice smile, that Jewish New York look that I tend to go for. I just need to get more info on him. (C, if you’re reading this – let’s discuss soon!) There may be a possibility of a group outing in the near future – less pressure that way.\n\nMore thoughts / details on serial dating to follow! \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?WhenItRains END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SurelyAbductedByAliens URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SurelyAbductedByAliens DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20240327T230000Z DTEND:20240328T230000Z CREATED:20250328T162606Z DATE-MOD:20250328T162606Z SUMMARY:Surely, abducted by aliens NAME:Surely, abducted by aliens DESCRIPTION:Marriage vs. Memories: Can We Declutter and Stay Together? 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And women, of course I’d love your insight on this as well.\n\nBackground: Great Smile and I had what seemed to be a really nice, six-hour date last weekend. Fun, flowing conversation. Some very nice kisses.\n\nA few days passed. No word from him. I decided to throw caution to the wind, sent a light, breezy e-mail, including some information he’d asked for on the date.\n\nMore days pass. Still nothing. Part of me got a bit worried – maybe something happened to him, run over by a garbage truck, perhaps? Well – unless someone else is logging onto J-date for him, he seems to be alive and well, considering he logged on today.\n\nI get it. After only two dates, he certainly doesn’t “owe” me an explanation. And yet – how do you go from e-mailing almost every day for two weeks to NOTHING?\n\nCommon courtesy? Not so common, apparently, in the wonderful world of dating.\n\nSigh. Guys. I wrote this to CJ earlier today:\nThis "dropping of the face of the earth" thing -- I can understand if the guy is in his 20s. But this one is in his late 30s -- he should know better. Dillhole.\n\nHer hilarious response:\nI think dropping off the face of the earth knows no age. Only knows penis.\n\n[DISCLAIMER: I’m certainly not putting ALL guys in that category – and yes, I know women can be flaky as well.]\n\nMoving on! Currently in talks with some decent-sounding new J-guys. It remains to be seen if any of them push my buttons. Somehow, I remain optimistic.\n\nUPDATE:\nIn a "why not" moment, I e-mailed Great Smile this morning -- asked if he'd want to get a drink next week, to "let me know either way".\n\nHe wrote back shortly after... apologized for not being in touch, and that while he had a nice time last weekend he's not "feeling the love, and doesn't want to waste anyone's time".\n\nI wrote back simply, "thanks for the update, wish you the very best". Of course, what I really wanted to know was, WHY bother kissing me til 1 am if you're not "feeling the love"??! (unless of course, he thought he was going to get more than just a few kisses)\n\nAnyway! Right now I have too many potential J-guys on my platter... I'm starting to forget what I've told to whom. Must take better notes. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?SurelyAbductedByAliens END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Date129TheGuru URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Date129TheGuru DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20230401T220000Z DTEND:20230402T220000Z CREATED:20250402T131425Z DATE-MOD:20250402T131425Z SUMMARY:Date #129: the Guru NAME:Date #129: the Guru DESCRIPTION:My Husband Nags Me About Being Overweight (https://bit.ly/43yBQ7b)\nMy Husband Is Old-Fashioned and Sexist (https://bit.ly/428NXp9)\nMy Husband's Drinking Is Ruining Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/43zusbJ)\nMy Infertility Is Ruining Our Marriage (https://bit.ly/42cDWre)\nMy Sick Husband Got Better and Our Marriage Got Worse (https://bit.ly/42owv1b)\nMy Stepdaughter Is Coming Between Us (https://bit.ly/4cd2ggX)\nReasons Why Black Women Should Date Non-Black Men (https://bit.ly/3XAmBXK)\nBlack Women | Black Families | Polyamory (https://bit.ly/43tYvl9)\nThe BS Confident Women Never Tolerate From Men (https://bit.ly/43sUj57)\n3 Things You Can Learn From My Failed Relationship (https://bit.ly/425R4hG)\nThings Men Say When We’re Just Running Dating Game (https://bit.ly/43AFn56)\nWhy Is It So Hard to Be Friends With an Ex? (https://bit.ly/3FLcZmZ)\nThe Awkward Missing Piece of the New Dating Puzzle (https://bit.ly/3Eag7YP)\nNot EVERY First Date is a Winner… (https://bit.ly/4laJuuX)\nMost Traumatizing First Kiss Ever (https://bit.ly/4cjlC4m)\n\nThis was my first "first date" in over two months, and I was a bit nervous. The Guru and I had nearly missed each other, like the proverbial two ships in the night: we'd had a few encouraging e-mails via Match, until he said he was getting off the site, and to write to him at his real email address.\n\nI did -- no response. I was a little surprised, but not so much -- it's not unusual for a Great Connection Guy to go MIA on the internet.\n\nAbout a week ago, I got an alert that he wrote to me again via Match (I couldn't read the content, as I was no longer a paying member). Again, I wrote to him at his e-mail address. Nothing.\n\nI finally did a bit of detective work, and discovered that I'd misspelled his e-mail address. Once I realized this, I let him know, and he quickly wrote back, and a date was planned. I couldn't help but think that if we hit it off, what a great story that would be -- the romance that almost didn't happen, thwarted by technology!\n\nHowever, that was not to be.\n\nMy request to talk on the phone prior to the date was met with "I'm not much of a phone person, but ok...". We wound up leaving messages for one another, and went into the date un-talked. Had I talked to him beforehand, I might not have had to write to this e-mail to a friend immediately after the date:\n\nSo... the date with (Mr Guru): for one, those pics on his profile are really old. Two: he suggested we meet for Thai food, but when he showed up (about 20 minutes late) he revealed that he was doing a cleanse - why bother meeting me for dinner then? I ate real food, while he got a bowl of broth. I had beer, he had hot water with lemon. Three: when the check came, I did the polite "can I contribute?" offer -- he said, "ok, we can split it, even though mine was less". Um... okay...\n\nHe was a bit too New Agey for me. He's not of this coast, and has only been living here a few months. The word "tantric" was bandied about. Interesting to talk to from a sociological stance, but no chemistry at all.\n\nOnward!\n\n*\nI recently stopped dating Martin because I felt it wasn't going anywhere, and I made a decision to actively seek a meaningful relationship. So why am I still dating Mr Easy, even though it doesn't feel like it has the makings of a great romance? Good question. It is easy, and we do have a good time. But is that enough? I think I need more time to figure it out. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Date129TheGuru END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Atelier4StrategieDeComLinkedinC ampus URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Atelier4StrategieDeComLinkedinC ampus DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20250415T070000Z DTEND:20250415T103000Z CREATED:20250219T155113Z DATE-MOD:20250403T140739Z SUMMARY:Atelier #4 "Stratégie de com & Linkedin" Campus Cédille, à Buis-les-Baronnies NAME:Atelier #4 "Stratégie de com & Linkedin" Campus Cédille, à Buis-les-Baronnies DESCRIPTION:Dans le cadre de la dynamique Campus Cédille Enclave des Papes Drôme provençale, le collectif propose des ateliers* pour les dirigeants.\n\nCette autre journée d'atelier a pour but de poser un regard détaché sur votre stratégie de communication, de marketing RH / pédagogique et les bonnes pratiques associé à l'utilisation du réseau LinkedIn (https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?LinkedIn/edit&newpage=1&th eme=margot&squelette=1col.tpl.html&style=margot.css).\n\nLes objectifs de cette journée spécifique sont : \n\n1/ Diagnostic flash de votre communication \n2/ Stratégie de communication 360 degrés\n3/ Bonnes pratiques LinkedIn (https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?LinkedIn/edit&newpage=1&th eme=margot&squelette=1col.tpl.html&style=margot.css)\n\n\n*Ces ateliers sont financés par le dispositif DEFFINOV AURA de la Région et de l'Union Européenne en faveur des innovations et coopérations entre organismes de formation, tiers-lieux et acteurs économiques publics et privés des territoires.\n\n\n\n S'inscrire (https://framaforms.org/ateliers-pour-organismes-et-acteurs-de-la-formatio n-1740038149) \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Atelier4StrategieDeComLinkedinCampu s LOCATION:Salle de l'Auditoire, rue de la Commune 26170 Buis les Baronnies GEO:44.27624494341084;5.27443573383815 END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Atelier5IngenierieEtMarketingPe dagogique URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Atelier5IngenierieEtMarketingPe dagogique DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20250526T070000Z DTEND:20250526T103000Z CREATED:20250219T155152Z DATE-MOD:20250403T140943Z SUMMARY:Atelier #5 "Ingénierie et marketing pédagogique" Campus Cédille, à Maison des Assos Nyons NAME:Atelier #5 "Ingénierie et marketing pédagogique" Campus Cédille, à Maison des Assos Nyons DESCRIPTION:Dans le cadre de la dynamique Campus Cédille Enclave des Papes Drôme provençale, le collectif propose des ateliers pour les dirigeants.\n\nCette autre journée d'atelier a pour but de poser un regard détaché sur votre ingénierie pédagogique, votre marketing / communication sur le sujet et les moyens de les améliorer avec d'autres partenaires du territoire ou d'ailleurs\n\nLes objectifs de cette journée spécifique sont : \n\n1/ Diagnostic flash de votre ingénierie pédagogique\n2/ Stratégie de communication et marketing pédagogique / RH\n3/ Bonnes pratiques\n\n\n\n\nCes ateliers sont financés par le dispositif DEFFINOV AURA de la Région et de l'Union Européenne en faveur des innovations et coopérations entre organismes de formation, tiers-lieux et acteurs économiques publics et privés des territoires.\n\n\n\n\n S'inscrire (https://framaforms.org/ateliers-pour-organismes-et-acteurs-de-la-formatio n-1740038149) \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Atelier5IngenierieEtMarketingPedago gique LOCATION:Maison des Associations, 29 rue Draye de Meyne 26110 Nyons GEO:44.36203241703136;5.139182467026103 END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Date156AndAnApology URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Date156AndAnApology DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20230413T220000Z DTEND:20230414T220000Z CREATED:20250414T153640Z DATE-MOD:20250414T153641Z SUMMARY:Date #156... and an apology. NAME:Date #156... and an apology. DESCRIPTION:You're Never Too Old For True Love! (https://bit.ly/4iv93o5)\nWhy Dating Tips Aren’t Working for You (https://bit.ly/3FZzyUP)\nTurn Your Holiday Blues Into Real Love (https://bit.ly/3RyTAIB)\nLove Problems? Never Run From The Issue - Solve It (https://bit.ly/4jo3MiF)\nYou Need Only One Man To Find True Love (https://bit.ly/4jmDfCs)\nFinding A Man Isn't The Answer (https://bit.ly/3YmJRbN)\nWhy Can't Your Heart And Head Like The Same Person (https://bit.ly/4jqn1YX)\nQuit The Blame Game & Ditch Bad Relationship Behaviors For Good (https://bit.ly/3YsxUBr)\nDo You Have A Love Leak? (https://bit.ly/3XY2X8e)\nWe Got Married Too Young (https://bit.ly/3RdzFhZ)\nWe Keep Tearing Each Other Down (https://bit.ly/4cpSLLy)\n\nThis snowy weather is making me tired and lazy, so I'm going to make this short and sweet and get back to some quality TV-watching and Match-surfing!\n\nDate #156: "Dominic"\nDominic was an English guy in my circle of friends in my 20s, and I had a HUGE crush on him for ages. We smooched once or twice, but it never went further than friendship.\n\nThis past weekend I had a brunch date with a British guy who now lives here in NY. I'm normally skeptical about a brunch date -- I generally think it's a good idea to have some darkness and booze to relax a bit around someone new -- but it seemed like it was the only time that worked for both of us. Let's-call-him-Dominic was smart and perfectly nice and had the kind of charming smile that I like -- but I'm just not sure the zing was there.\n\nIf I hear from him, I'd be happy to go out with him again -- if not, no harm done.\n\n*\nShocker of the week -- I got this email from Mr 2010 (and since I don't particularly care if he discovers the blog, here it is in its entirety):\n\nHi, yes, I am safely alive, thanks. I'm really sorry about last Sunday. I don't have a worthy explanation... I barely got out of bed all day, and then when I saw your text it was already late and I felt like a big jerk. I've been trying to figure out how to talk to you about it since then, but not very successfully, obviously.\n\nIt's a longer, bigger story than I can do via email right now, but I've been a bit of a mess recently. It's not something I'd want to inflict on anyone else. I like you, but I have to deal with my crap right now. I hope you understand, and I hope you can forgive me for being such an inconsiderate ass.\n\nI hope you're well. Thank you for the concern, too.\n\n[Mr 2010]\n\n\nSo -- that's that. Better late than never, I suppose? Anyway, my main thought was: whew! Dodged THAT bullet.\n\nI haven't felt a need to write back. Done. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?Date156AndAnApology END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?BigCitySmallWorld URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?BigCitySmallWorld DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20240414T220000Z DTEND:20240415T220000Z CREATED:20250415T153117Z DATE-MOD:20250415T153117Z SUMMARY:Big city, small world. NAME:Big city, small world. DESCRIPTION:We Lived Separate Lives (https://bit.ly/4icCU4f)\nWe Were Living Like Roommates (https://bit.ly/3RgT69H)\nThe Real Reason You Haven't Found Your Perfect Partner (https://bit.ly/4igvRYq)\nWhy Aren't You Married? Facing Your Love Alibi (https://bit.ly/4i96MOV)\nEver Have A False Positive In Dating? (https://bit.ly/4ie1L7G)\nWhen Love Manifestation Turns Into Mani-Frustration (https://bit.ly/4lJOB5E)\nAre You Discounting Yourself In Love? (https://bit.ly/3XY1z5A)\nOrdering Love Like A Latte (https://bit.ly/4ie1O3m)\nLooking For A Quick Fix For Your Love Life? (https://bit.ly/3RSlS0s)\nImpatient for Mr. Right? (https://bit.ly/4ikvKeu)\n\nOver two years ago I dated this guy I blog-named Captain Awesome. We had a nice enough time -- 10 dates over a period of a month -- but it just didn't have the makings of a great romance, and things ended amicably.\n\nThe other night, my friend Q and I were comparing dating stories. She mentioned that she'd recently had four dates with some guy, but found him to be a bit whiny and negative -- for the sake of the story, she said his first name was "Captain".\n\nI can't recall what made me ask his last name -- when I did, I was surprised to hear her say "Awesome". The very same Captain Awesome -- she met him on a dating site, as I did.\n\nMy first thought: wait! Didn't you meet him at my birthday party that year? Oh right -- she was out of the country and couldn't make it to the party.\n\nAlso, funnily enough -- I nearly brought him to one of her parties that year, but didn't in the end. Can't recall why -- could have been because she didn't have room for additional guests, or maybe simply because I felt that things were coming to an end, so I decided against it.\n\nWe wondered if we'd had any other dating overlap? So I dug through my notes...\n\n... more on that next time! \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?BigCitySmallWorld END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ReunionDePreparationDuSalonVivr eIci URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ReunionDePreparationDuSalonVivr eIci DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20250506T070000Z DTEND:20250506T100000Z CREATED:20250423T165509Z DATE-MOD:20250423T165509Z SUMMARY:Réunion de préparation du Salon Vivre ici NAME:Réunion de préparation du Salon Vivre ici DESCRIPTION:Première rencontre des structures intéressées par une participation au Salon Vivre ici : étudier, travailler, habiter en Drôme provençale. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ReunionDePreparationDuSalonVivreIci LOCATION:Maison de Pays, 128 Promenade de la Digue 26110 Nyons GEO:44.35671273034412;5.135287642478944 END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT UID:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ComiteDePilotage URL:https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ComiteDePilotage DTSTAMP:20260412T230810Z DTSTART:20250603T120000Z DTEND:20250603T140000Z CREATED:20250531T141216Z DATE-MOD:20250531T141217Z SUMMARY:Comité de pilotage NAME:Comité de pilotage DESCRIPTION:Rencontre des membres du Copil de Campus Cédille Drôme Provençale. \nSource: https://campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net/?ComiteDePilotage LOCATION:rue ferdinand fert 26110 Nyons GEO:44.35199479589756;5.1180946826934814 END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR