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There already is a parental leave of sorts. Look into Family and Medical Leave Act leave ( http:\/\/www.dol.gov\/whd\/fmla\/ ).\n\nTwelve workweeks of leave in a 12-month period for:\n\n* the birth of a child and to care for the newborn child within one year of birth;\n* the placement with the employee of a child for adoption or foster care and to care for the newly placed child within one year of placement;\n* to care for the employee\u2019s spouse, child, or parent who has a serious health condition;\n* a serious health condition that makes the employee unable to perform the essential functions of his or her job;\n* any qualifying exigency arising out of the fact that the employee\u2019s spouse, son, daughter, or parent is a covered military member on \u201ccovered active duty;\u201d\n\nThis is unpaid leave so the damage inflicted on the employer is only through lost productivity (I\u2019m not trivializing the loss, just saying it could be worse). Basically the employer is forced to let the employee stop working for 12 weeks (3 months!) and cannot replace them in the meantime. From my own workplace observations it is not unusual for low-skill\/low-wage employees to max out their FMLA every year\u2026 because they\u2019re having another illegitimate child literally every year. For a low-wage single mom it is no problem to miss three month\u2019s pay because they have: food stamps, subsidized housing, Medicaid, an earned income tax credit, and most likely child support.\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 2 Thumb down 0\nDavid M. Green August 30, 2014 at 09:58\nRE: \u201cWhile I\u2019m not usually a proponent of socialism,\u2026\u201d\n\nIt was the Anti- Socialist\u2019s, Conservatives and Libertarian\u2019s such as yourself who helped to pave the way for the Corporate Take Over of America and the resulting destruction of the Middle Class and Impoverishment of the Working Class.\n\nMy advice is to stop whining and complaining about the very bed your hands helped to make that you now have to ly in; and follow the maxim: When the going gets tough the tough get going!\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 0 Thumb down 2\nChris August 30, 2014 at 15:29\nBill, one of my sons had colic. He\u2019s 19, and I still remember.\n\n\n**You Might Be Interested TO Read Also:**\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CPdKd8 Three Men To Avoid At The Bar]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i3FMSl About Bad Guys And The Women Who Love Them]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i7GIFf The Gangsta\u2019s Guide To Watching Chick Flicks]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49bvFGR When Your Valentine is Your Daughter]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49azc8q How To Date Like A Psychopath]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3COtJIp What Women Find Irresistible]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/499fn1p What Exactly Makes a \u201cGood\u201d Parent?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4i9nZZM Who\u2019s the No. 1 Woman in a Man\u2019s Life?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ibXVgQ Spouse or Parents\u2026or Kids: Who Rank \u201cFirst?\u201d]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Zek5WW We All Know That Black Girls Do That Right?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/498jyKV Modern Male Emasculation]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49jr8m0 The Surprising Power of a Simple Word in Dating]]","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-11-29","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-11-29","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"FromCatfishToTrueLoveLessonsFromVirtual","date_creation_fiche":"2024-11-29 17:40:48","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-11-29 17:40:48","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-11-29\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-11-29\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022FromCatfishToTrueLoveLessonsFromVirtual\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-11-29 17:40:48\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-11-29 17:40:48\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?FromCatfishToTrueLoveLessonsFromVirtual"},"RussianMenAttractionUnpackingCulturalBias":{"bf_titre":"Russian Men Attraction: Unpacking Cultural Biases","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OAnPx7 Things Men Talk About When Women Aren\u2019t Looking]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ieep8a Black Men Desirability: Unpacking Cultural Biases]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ihGVpy Women\u0027 Things Men Struggle To Understand]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4irrDyy Going Nowhere Fast, We\u2019ve Reached Our Climax]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CUQ9I0 Are Women Too Loyal for Their Own Good]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41dXv3x Things Black People Say?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ijKImf What Really Works For Us Chicks]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3AYvJgJ Words I Hope My Daughter Never Says]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CROmDn Why Women Get a Pass on Things Men Can\u2019t]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ihnlJL 5 Signs That You Might Be Dating a Zombie Who Might Zombie Apocalapyse Your A**]]\n\nWhen people think about Russian men, certain stereotypes often come to mind: rugged, stoic, fiercely loyal, or even intimidating. These perceptions, shaped by cultural biases and media portrayals, can color how Russian men are seen in the world of dating and relationships. But what\u2019s the truth behind these assumptions? Let\u2019s unpack some of the common cultural biases surrounding Russian men and explore what truly defines their appeal.\n\n====1. The Stereotype of Stoicism====\nOne of the most prevalent stereotypes about Russian men is their supposed stoicism. Popular culture often depicts them as emotionally reserved, prioritizing practicality over sentiment. While it\u2019s true that Russian culture values resilience and emotional strength, this doesn\u2019t mean Russian men lack warmth or depth.\n\nIn fact, many Russian men express their emotions through actions rather than words. Loyalty, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to family and friends are often how they show love. This quiet yet steadfast nature is something many find deeply attractive, as it offers a sense of security and dependability.\n\n====2. Misconceptions About Dominance====\nAnother common bias is that Russian men are overly dominant in relationships. This stems from traditional gender roles that have historically influenced Russian society, where men were often seen as protectors and providers.\n\nHowever, modern Russian men are increasingly challenging these outdated norms. While many still take pride in being dependable and taking initiative, there\u2019s a growing recognition of the importance of equality in relationships. This balance between strength and sensitivity makes them unique partners, capable of adapting to changing times while retaining traditional values.\n\n====3. The Allure of Cultural Pride====\nRussian men are deeply connected to their heritage, often embracing the rich history, literature, and traditions of their homeland. This cultural pride can be magnetic, offering partners a glimpse into a world filled with deep-rooted customs and values.\n\nHowever, this pride can sometimes be misunderstood as arrogance. The reality is that Russian men value authenticity and hold themselves to high standards, which can be misinterpreted by those unfamiliar with their culture.\n\n===Conclusion: Beyond the Biases===\nThe attraction to Russian men lies in their complexity\u2014a blend of strength, loyalty, and cultural richness. By looking beyond the stereotypes, it becomes clear that their appeal is not rooted in myths but in their authenticity and depth. True attraction starts when we unpack biases and embrace individuals for who they are.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-12-03","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-12-03","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"RussianMenAttractionUnpackingCulturalBias","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-03 17:21:11","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-03 17:21:12","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-12-03\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-12-03\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022RussianMenAttractionUnpackingCulturalBias\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-03 17:21:11\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-03 17:21:12\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?RussianMenAttractionUnpackingCulturalBias"},"TheRBSongThatTaughtMeAboutBeingInLov":{"bf_titre":"The R\u0026amp;B Song That Taught Me About Being \u0027In Love\u0027","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ODlgdx Rediscovering Love on My Own Terms]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3D0NwED Single Men Who Want More Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ihRnNE Open Letter To Men Who Want More]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4idyw6t For Men Who Love Poly Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4icEwMC Progressive Love Applauds Too $hort]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CZav2Q Is Love the Most Feared Emotion?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3B05zu4 Love Kills Self Love \u0026amp; Self Esteem]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4in48q8 Are Nagging \u0026amp; Cheating Equally Damaging?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OLPRFP Why Do We Fall In Love? Is It Healthy?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4f219jW Why Master Monogamy]]\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 29 Thumb down 0\nepoche* August 30, 2014 at 05:15\nSo how could Foucault not see this existential threat to himself? Hatred. His hatred of Western Civilization \u0026amp; Capitalism was so blinding \u0026amp; all-consuming that he was blind to the danger. He merely saw the application of the maxim, \u201cThe Enemy(Islam) of my Enemy(The West) is my Friend\u201d without considering there is an alternative: \u201cThe Enemy of my Enemy might be my Enemy too\u2026\u201d\n\nFeminism shares this blinding existential hatred as well\u2026\n\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014-\nTo someone such as Foucault someone such as Khomeini was a savior because he represented a leader of a different power structure that would overthrow the power base where he detested. He wasnt interested in anything more than that.\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 12 Thumb down 2\nepoche* August 30, 2014 at 06:20\nThis has nothing to do with anything on this board but why have Mens Rights people not utilized Kickstarter or Indiegogo to raise funds?\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 6 Thumb down 2\nUncle Elmer August 30, 2014 at 06:47\nBut here in the US we have serious gender crimes.\n\nSenator Kirstin Gillibrand, up and coming femist politician determined to get Hillary Clinton elected to the presidency, has a published a new tell-all with details about humiliating sexual harassment at the hands of senate colleagues :\n\nhttp:\/\/time.com\/3197103\/kirsten-gillibrand-senate-sexism\/\n\nNote \u201cconcerned female martyr-hero\u201d pose in front of American flag.\n\nAs she is promoting legislation to change the military justice system based on flawed statistics about sexual assaults in the military, it makes sense for her to claim personal harassment as part of her overall marketing strategy. She should name her tormentors or shut up.\n\nWell-loved. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 25 Thumb down 0\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-12-10","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-12-10","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheRBSongThatTaughtMeAboutBeingInLov","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-10 10:36:20","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-10 10:36:21","user":"49.228.249.194","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-12-10\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-12-10\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheRBSongThatTaughtMeAboutBeingInLov\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-10 10:36:20\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-10 10:36:21\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?TheRBSongThatTaughtMeAboutBeingInLov"},"AreYouExperiencedOrExasperated":{"bf_titre":"Are You Experienced or Exasperated?","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49t6JuJ Ladies We Need Answers]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g80eQB The Difference Between Girls and Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g6WwGF On Dating: Experienced or Just Plain Damaged?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g80E9E A Chosen Season: On Being Single in My Late 20s]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g6Uxm1 The Painful Friends With Benefits Cycle]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fZuRaN 10 Reasons Why You Might Still Be Single]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ingZZs The Things Women Say That Piss Off Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g6WjTT Challenges Of A Male Relationship Blogger]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iGvCaC Why Relationships Commitment Scares Me]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g8CI63 The Dumbest Arguments Couples Have]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3D6FGt3 Don\u2019t Tell Me Where To Be Romantic!]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g7vgb9 Tickle Me Cheater]]\n\nNo, I was talking to Tood. Hence the \u201cyou\u201d and not \u201cy\u2019all\u201d\n\nAre you familar with the plural form of \u201cyou\u201d?\n\nAs in:\n\n\u201cThat said, I\u2019m rather skeptical that any of you are at all like Epoxy. \u201d\n\nOh! You must have meant the multiple cloned versions of Tood that he keeps around him as an entourage.\n\nPlease enlighten me to my heaps of lies.\n\nI\u2019m sure A.J. Travis has the information in his files. In fact, I\u2019m on the phone with him now as I type\u2026\n\n\nThe Fifth Horseman PERMALINK\nOctober 21, 2009 1:06 pm\nPA,\n\nCan\u2019t comment about Obs, Epx or Tup., but in your case, don\u2019t you mean \u201csolid rep of knowing about sexbots\u201d?\n\nA drive-by, eh? You are a pretty fragile little man, it appears.\n\nSuffice it to say, I have more direct experience with women than you, and it is clear that both you and I know it.\n\n\nPA PERMALINK\nOctober 21, 2009 1:18 pm\nSuffice it to say, I have more direct experience with women than you, and it is clear that both you and I know it.\n\nFunny thing is, until you mentioned that you are 35, I figured you for a nerdy college-aged kid. Your comments reek of earnest overcompensation and utter cluelessness about women.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-12-12","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-12-12","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"AreYouExperiencedOrExasperated","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-12 11:32:59","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-12 11:32:59","user":"49.228.251.74","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-12-12\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-12-12\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022AreYouExperiencedOrExasperated\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-12 11:32:59\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-12 11:32:59\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?AreYouExperiencedOrExasperated"},"LetsBoycottTantricSex":{"bf_titre":"Let\u2019s Boycott Tantric Sex!","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49yWLYK How Pocket-Dialing Can C*ckblock You]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g8Sg9R Attack of The Killer Ex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ORrrL8 How To Deal With A Psycho Ex During The Holidays]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DfapnV Attention Mongers Crybabies and Dramaheads]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DadqpB 25 Signals You\u0027re Not Ready For a Online Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gcYLIz 5 Skills Every Man And Woman Should Master]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49z3q5i Can Sex Be A Laughing Matter?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gbh8xB The Sh*t Women Say That Piss Off Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49BHSF9 Dating a Jersey Shore Fan]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gaO7lT Dealing With Exes on Valentine\u2019s Day]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OXBtdG A Decent Girl For a Nice Guy]]\n\nIf you are looking for some effective and free dating advice, the best thing I can tell you right now is to avoid engaging in tantric sex with your partner if you know what\u2019s good for you.   If you ask me, tantric sex was created for women who are looking to avoid telling their male partners they cum too quickly or for women who are just too damn shy to ask their lovers to strap on a vibrating cock ring in bed.\n\nIf you\u2019re a man and been in a relationship for a long time,  you will start to notice your lady is getting a little bored  with the sex.  She will search online personals for tantric sex workshops and make you spend tons of money to sit in a room where you have to watch other couples around you dry hump each other while breathing in and out simultaneously and learning how to enjoy sex without ejaculating.  What?!!\n\nMen do not like having to read books on how to please their women in bed.  We don\u2019t like having slow sex and breathing in and out of our noses.  Tantra sex was made for affected hipsters and STING. (which made sound a little redundant.)\n\nWe like to ejaculate.  We don\u2019t care if we can have an hour long orgasm if we bring it in internally.  Why the hell would we even want that?  An hour long orgasm sounds like torture and we already make horrifying faces in the 3 seconds we climax.  You want to endure our goofy faces for an hour?\n\nLet\u2019s boycott tantric sex and have sex the good ol\u2019 fashioned way.  (Really, what\u2019s so wrong with that?)","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-12-13","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-12-13","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"LetsBoycottTantricSex","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-13 11:15:44","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-13 11:15:45","user":"49.228.251.74","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-12-13\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-12-13\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022LetsBoycottTantricSex\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-13 11:15:44\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-13 11:15:45\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?LetsBoycottTantricSex"},"GameOrPlayerUnpackingTheRelationshipBlam":{"bf_titre":"Game or Player? Unpacking the Relationship Blame Cycle","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BDqpzx The Wingwoman]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VEN84T Change You Can Believe In: Yourself]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VJDLkO Quick to Pass Judgment]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41z2ZGa Why Some People Hate Valentine\u2019s Day]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41GcK5f I\u2019m Single on Valentine\u2019s Day]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Eo164 My Secret Social Identity]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49MGdNc What Exactly Is Dating? It\u2019s Ambiguous.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41DssOE Why Love Is Not a First Sight Thing]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Ge48n Chivalry Makes Women Feel Good]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Bz0sRH Relationship Experts: Hate The Player Or The Game?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41ABtbl The Double Standard of Men and Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VGO20U The Double Standard of Men and Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BmqveY The Double Standard of Men and Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41A5KHe 8 Ways to Make a Guy Not Want to Sleep with You]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VGgYGr 8 Ways to Make a Woman NOT Want to Sleep with You]]\n\n\nI\u2019m curious if your opinion would be different were the roles reversed; if I had been the one to ask that we wait, and she reassured me continuance was preferred, should I have told her to go fuck herself? Would her actions be considered manipulative? The concept that women don\u2019t want\/need\/enjoy sex as much as men do is as archaic as the idea that women who are comfortable satisfying their lusts, are easy. I for one am eager to see both go the way of the dinosaurs.\n\nBest\nJFB\n\nLike or Dislike: Thumb up 2 Thumb down 0\n\nReply\n\n18Themis March 5, 2010 at 1:17 PM\nIn light of the additional details, the situation was not as it first appeared in your post. I think the necessity of brevity while writing an interesting piece overlooked the specifics of her behavior you just mentioned and changed the tone of the situation, so in that case, it does appear that you continued a flow rather than forcing it.\n\nI think if the situation were reversed, my opinion would not change. Only, she would have been labeled as a tease had she not continued and a man would be labeled as \u2013 well, hm, has a situation like that ever really happened? :) Anecdotally, I have many male friends who were in that position, sex was offered on the 1st date, and even though they didn\u2019t particularly like the female or have any intention of seeing her again, they grabbed the low hanging fruit. To them, it was scratching an itch, to her it was expressing a perceived connection that left her texting them in vain for weeks. Obviously this isn\u2019t a SRS and the lack of communication confounded the issue.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-12-19","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-12-19","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"GameOrPlayerUnpackingTheRelationshipBlam","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-19 10:46:28","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-19 10:46:29","user":"184.22.250.22","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-12-19\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-12-19\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022GameOrPlayerUnpackingTheRelationshipBlam\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-19 10:46:28\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-19 10:46:29\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?GameOrPlayerUnpackingTheRelationshipBlam"},"ExaminingGenderedLabelsInSexuality":{"bf_titre":"Examining Gendered Labels in Sexuality","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VXueGD A Few Thoughts on Conflict in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VPvmfl Why Trying to \u0022Be More Feminine or Masculine\u0022 is a Trap]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BJCTWp \u0022Not Good Enough\u0022]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VUAFdG Chasing After Instant Chemistry is Foolish]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BLGjba Does Longevity in the Past = Mature Dater Today?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BNkUOT Are You Really Prepared for a Relationship?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VWKPKV Guys Don\u2019t Want to Date \u201cOne of The Guys\u201d]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VTunuK Things I Have Learned About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VVCVBz Fear in Dating and Relationships]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VUsWfK Does the Person You\u0027re Dating Make You Smile]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VWL2Od Marrige and Happiness]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VXu8Ph Is Your Resolution to Find Love in the New Year?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VQDqNe Disappearing Dates]]\n\nClearly, I was suggesting that there is no reason to dedicate a day to celebrating or taking pride in one\u2019s sexual orientation.\n\nAnd people told you why this was stupid (to reiterate, because bisexual people have been told that their bisexuality is something to be ashamed of, so celebrating bisexual pride is a way to overcome that). You responded by pretending that no one addressed your points, so perhaps you can understand why people aren\u2019t taking you seriously.\n\nTry reading Foucault on how persecution and medicalization creates a sense of sexuality as group identity, and then get back to me.\n\nTry reading Foucault on how persecution and medicalization creates a sense of sexuality as group identity, and then get back to me.\n\nI don\u2019t take Continental philosophy very seriously, so I don\u2019t expect I\u2019ll be getting back to you any time soon.\nYou ask for answers, and then you reject the ones you get, because the entire continent of Europe has not produced any thought worth your attention?\n\nYou crack me up.\n\nFrom somebody using a nym from Greek mythology to boot.\n\nP.S. It\u2019s well past time that this sub-discussion was taken to #spillover.\n\nIs there any group identity that you feel does merit pride or any kind of commemoration by means of a parade or other public celebration?\n\nContrary to popular misconception, reason is not the primary motivator of human behavior.\n\nI\u2019m bi, but I\u2019m NOT a member of the queer community. \u2018Queer\u2019 is a horrible word to my ears and I don\u2019t see why I should put up with you calling me that. Also, just because I have a certain sexuality doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m part of some mythical community. I\u2019m part of the normal community, thanks.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-12-26","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-12-26","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ExaminingGenderedLabelsInSexuality","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-26 11:50:49","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-26 11:50:49","user":"49.228.250.82","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-12-26\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-12-26\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ExaminingGenderedLabelsInSexuality\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222024-12-26 11:50:49\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222024-12-26 11:50:49\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?ExaminingGenderedLabelsInSexuality"},"ReimaginingFamilyDynamicsForAModernWorld":{"bf_titre":"Reimagining Family Dynamics for a Modern World","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49YWnTO More On the Nuclear Family with Children Narrative]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iX9E3k Loosening the Chains of the Nuclear Family]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iSkabY Kindness and Modern Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gNRM8Q How to Navigate Uncertainty in Online Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DtnDgM A Dating Suggestion to the Deeply Frustrated]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49X16VV Rethinking Gender Norms in Modern Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49STOm7 Obsessing About Strangers]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/49UFqJW Two Dates in One]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iRFmyN Texts Or Calls And Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Pc2lqL Men Like a Challenge]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4acUVxf Men Want to Feel Manly]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gPbSQf Issues with the Language of Dating Angst]]\n\nListen, I\u2019m a single gal and though I see a wedding in my future, it\u2019s not in the near future. I have no use for this beautiful dress. Not to mention that it\u2019s taking up room in my tiny studio. And hello, how scary would it be to bring a guy over with a wedding gown hanging outside my closet?! So, I would love to give it to someone more deserving. Maybe you have a wedding coming up and haven\u2019t budgeted enough for a dress, or you want to dye it and turn it into your dream prom dress, I want to hear about it. Contact me (below) and tell me your story by 10\/1\/11, and I will choose one person to ship the dress to.\n\n\nIf you know of anyone who might be interested, drop Yue a line on her blog. Also, I encourage people to go read the story behind her getting the dress - it\u0027s quite fun.\n\nSpeaking of weddings, or non-weddings, I saw a movie the other day - Away We Go - where the issue of marriage seemed quite prominent. Specifically, what I found interesting was how the woman of the main couple in the movie repeatedly turned down her boyfriend\u0027s proposals for marriage. And she\u0027s doing this as she\u0027s pregnant with their first child.\n\nNow, there\u0027s never any sense that this couple is in trouble. That they aren\u0027t committed to each other. In fact, as the movie goes on, it becomes quite clear the filmmaker wants us to view them as \u0022the happy ones\u0022 amongst others who are struggling, miserable, or otherwise dysfunctional. The New York Times review I linked to is quite scathing of the film\u0027s depiction, and while I agreed with some of it, I found something refreshing in featuring a healthy couple that doesn\u0027t fit the standard narrative.\n\nHowever, I also found this from near the end of the Time review compelling as well:\n\nReally, \u201cAway We Go\u201d is about the flight from adulthood, from engagement, from responsibility, even as it cleverly disguises itself as a search for all those things. But the dream of being left alone in a world of your own making, far from anything sad or icky or difficult, is a child\u2019s fantasy. Not an unattractive or uncommon one, it must be said, and for that reason it is tempting to follow Burt and Verona into the precious, hermetic paradise that awaits them at the end of the road.\n\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-01-02","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-01-02","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ReimaginingFamilyDynamicsForAModernWorld","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:05:27","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-02 11:05:27","user":"184.22.251.227","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-01-02\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-01-02\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ReimaginingFamilyDynamicsForAModernWorld\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:05:27\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-02 11:05:27\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?ReimaginingFamilyDynamicsForAModernWorld"},"SexInSeattle":{"bf_titre":"SEX in Seattle?","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a8WpIB An Ode to Emily]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PqnoFX More Than Meets The Eyes]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ohyLQ Should I Tell Her How I Feel?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4aeydEU The Play Date]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a9vj3X Dogs, Cats, and the Art of Dating: Lessons from the Cab Ride]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4aofffb The Colorado Connection That Could Never Be]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PqnoWt When Love Feels Like a DIY Project: The Fixer-Upper Dilemma]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DG5ug2 Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a5OThE Should You Settle?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a3xgPz Is There Hope For The Gender Gap?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Poz1x5 Cheating is a Cop Out]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a5TuQU The Dance of Second Chances]]\n\nIt\u2019s URGENT.\n\n\u201cHey,\u201d he\u2019s playing it smooth. I almost buy it. \u201cIt\u2019s me. Call me.\u201d\n\nOnly two face-to-face meetings with what was supposed to be a textbook one-night-stand and he\u2019s already thrusting himself into the familiar. Thank GOD it went straight to voice-mail.\n\n\u2026 one hippopotamus\u2026 two hippopotamus\u2026 three hippopotamus\u2026 BINGO!\n\nText #1: HOW DOES SEATTLE SOUND?\n\n\u2026 one Mississippi\u2026 two Mississippi\u2026\n\nText #2: FREE TICKET + FREE HOTEL = NICE LITTLE WEEKEND.\n\n\u2026 holy\u2026 shit\u2026\n\nText #3: NEXT WEEKEND?\n\nIt\u2019s plausible, but is it palpable? Two meetings. One hook up. Mr. Write chides me hourly about my \u201cno strings attached\u201d mantra.\n\n\u201cEverything\u2019s got strings attached somehow,\u201d he grimaces. \u201cIt\u2019s just a matter of what kinds of strings are attached and who they\u2019re attached to.\u201d","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-08","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-08","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SexInSeattle","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-08 09:24:39","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-08 09:24:40","user":"184.22.251.227","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-08\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-08\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SexInSeattle\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-08 09:24:39\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-08 09:24:40\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?SexInSeattle"},"SingleGirlSurvivalSays":{"bf_titre":"Single Girl Survival Says","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a8syQs Why Is Self-Esteem Important For Dating?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h6OoWZ Top Free and Paid Online Dating Websites]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ad0QC7 Seizing New Dating Opportunities]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WfL6sn The Perfect Movie Date at Home]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h3rJe2 Single Men Don\u2019t Have Body Image Issues]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hbd1lv What Makes a Good Man or a Good Woman?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h6Opdv Equating \u2018Sexuality\u2019 with Male Sexuality]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Wec7MR Why in the World Would I Ever Get Married?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ac3OqG How Jealousy Can Work For Us]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a7Gf2h The Catalano Generation is Revolutionizing Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a9mFTc Mexico City\u0027s Short-Term Marriage Proposal]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DKfZPt Even in Relationship You\u2019re All Alone]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4a9jgnw I Lack the Commitment Gene]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DKfUeD Stop Crying and Be a Man]]\n\nI am here to bring you some interesting news about Single Girl Survival.\n\nMy friend, Leigh, has decided to come aboard Single Girl Survival and help me write exciting stories about love, dating, relationships, sex and life in general! She has lots of great stories from the trenches of the Hollywood scene, and lots of great advice complete with the same cynical and sarcastic sense of humour as I do.\n\nLet\u2019s all welcome her aboard! I will be sure to clearly identify which of us are writing which posts so you can follow our stories and rants in a sequential order. There may even be site changes on the way, who knows what kind of exciting things are in store for the future!\n\nI appreciate all of you out there reading my single girl rants! Muuah!\n\nOn a similar note, I want to send a little shout out to one of my recent \u2018admirers\u2019, because it sounds to me like he needs a little extra love. His name is \u2018DRD\u2019 and his comments to my blog posts are listed below. I am not sure how to respond to any of them because they seem a little off topic, so instead of approving the comments, I will dedicate this post to you so that you know I love you too! ;)\n\nLike Father, Like Daughter\nYou are full of contradictions, arn\u2019t you. And you say that we, the man, are confused? I\u2019d say that this is a two-way street, hey, we confuse you and you confuse us. What fun we are having. Here is a mommy phrase for you: \u201cGet a life\u201d.\nDating Tip for Guys Who Want to Get Laid\nWell, that was worthless! We already know that \u201cgirls\u201d have an ego the size of Paris and wants the size of Macys.\nFrogs and Holidays\nWhen might you forget and forgive those match makers and get on with your life as you see fit?\nsigned: a man","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-01-10","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-01-10","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SingleGirlSurvivalSays","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-10 10:56:37","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-10 10:56:38","user":"49.228.248.12","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-01-10\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-01-10\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SingleGirlSurvivalSays\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-10 10:56:37\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-10 10:56:38\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?SingleGirlSurvivalSays"},"InAPerfectWorldPeopleWouldLaughAtPorno":{"bf_titre":"In a perfect world, people would laugh at pornography.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40t93iw Settling for Mr. \u201cGood Enough\u201d]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40w2dJ9 Can You Really Settle for Love?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4heFJ4D Is the Modern Hook-Up Really a Threat?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40f2633 How the World Makes Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40szB3s Notes On Soul Mates and Sails]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40h4C94 What I Miss (and Don\u2019t Miss) About My Wedding Ring]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/409Tg6V The Rise of Polyamory in Modern Society]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h9AQK9 My Mexican Summer Fling]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h38UI2 Using Magic to Find Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4fXhVS2 Can You Be Friends With Your Ex Right Away?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40h4CpA Love Addict: Do You Just Know?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40bzsQC The Two-Sided Tale of a One-Night Stand]]\n\nThe #InsomniaClub\u2018s theme for April was based off this New York Times story of a 13-year old girl who sent a nude photo of herself to her boyfriend. Inevitably the photo got out and spread like wildfire.\n\nInterested in the sexual-repression side of the story, I came across this video by 1 Giant Leap, creators of my favourite film of all time, What About Me?\n\nTwo quotes that stood out to me:\n\nYou really see it in America\u2026sexuality is so much the shadow of the culture. Because it\u2019s not there, there\u2019s this reverse, perverted idea is what we get to see.\n\nand\u2026\n\nI\u2019d say sexuality is out of balance in the world today, and I don\u2019t think it\u2019s female or male sexuality. I think in a perfect world, people would laugh at pornography, because everybody would be getting so much love, and so many hugs, and so many climaxes and orgasms that to even think of watching it would be kind of silly or redundant.\n\nIt\u2019s a thinker\u2026","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-01-14","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-01-14","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"InAPerfectWorldPeopleWouldLaughAtPorno","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-14 11:09:03","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-14 11:09:03","user":"49.228.248.12","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-01-14\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-01-14\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022InAPerfectWorldPeopleWouldLaughAtPorno\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-14 11:09:03\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-14 11:09:03\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?InAPerfectWorldPeopleWouldLaughAtPorno"},"TheresNothingInherentlyImmoralAboutNaked":{"bf_titre":"There\u2019s nothing inherently immoral about naked pictures.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/409zNDg A Relationship Evolved (and Happy Birthday To My Ex)]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40bPOst The Unforgettable First Kiss]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PAH1LA Jealousy Versus Envy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3WiZNuP Love Addict: The Pregnancy Dilemma]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ivhCi How Do You Help Someone Who Doesn\u2019t Want Help?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DX2xHZ Most Radical Relationship Books On the Market]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40esfPF We Hold Ourselves Back]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ivdCy What Happens When You Actually In Relationship??]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/407JTV2 Is a Same-Sex Encounter Important in Living Holistically?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PDYJ0E You\u2019re a Selfish Bitch and That\u2019s Why You\u2019re Not Married]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40bPOIZ Learning How to Love Yourself]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cb2Det Love Addict: Writing the Personal]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3PBlPFw How Do You Learn to Let Go?]]\n\nOh, good grief.\n\nimmorality itself is a social construct.\n\nNext you\u2019ll assert that there\u2019s no such thing as truth.\n\nThis.\n\nIf you took a man who lived alone his entire life I doubt he would not be able to tell the difference between an immoral and a moral act.\n\nMorality (from the Latin moralitas \u201cmanner, character, proper behavior\u201d) is the differentiation of intentions, decisions, and actions between those that are good (or right) and those that are bad (or wrong). The philosophy of morality is ethics. A moral code is a system of morality (according to a particular philosophy, religion, culture, etc.) and a moral is any one practice or teaching within a moral code. Morality may also be specifically synonymous with \u201cgoodness\u201d or \u201crightness.\u201d Immorality is the active opposition to morality (i.e. opposition to that which is good or right), while amorality is variously defined as an unawareness of, indifference toward, or disbelief in any set of moral standards or principles.[1][2][3][4] An example of a moral code is the Golden Rule which states that, \u201cOne should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself.\u201d[5]\n\nThere\u2019s nothing inherently immoral about naked pictures.\n1) It harms nobody.\n2) It\u2019s not always sexual.\n3) Context is everything.\n\nThis is easier than you think. Some of my experiences:\n\nIt\u2019s easier with girls I\u2019ve met on OK Cupid who are 30 or younger, usually 26-23.\n\nSecondly, i usually adopt a sexual frame off the top.\n\nAfter we swap photos, I usually say\n\nMe: Interesting, you look too innocent.\n\nHer: Innocent?\n\nMe: Yah\u2026\n\nthen take it from there.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-01-16","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-01-16","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheresNothingInherentlyImmoralAboutNaked","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-16 11:24:47","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-16 11:24:48","user":"49.228.248.12","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-01-16\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-01-16\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheresNothingInherentlyImmoralAboutNaked\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-16 11:24:47\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-16 11:24:48\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?TheresNothingInherentlyImmoralAboutNaked"},"ShouldIWaitForHimToGetHisMoneyRight":{"bf_titre":"Should I Wait For Him To Get His Money Right?","bf_description":"[3 Deadly Strategies To Use Against Cockblockers](https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g49Nir)\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Ef1Tpa What Does Your Price Imply About Your Value?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40kgTK5 How To Be With 4 Women At The Same Time]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g89Rhp What Is The Worst That Could Happen?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g2BWXf 11 Step Prep For A Night Out]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40J8eBd The Number 1 Way To Have A One Night Stand]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Cpeo0T Disregard White Women - Acquire Currency]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40lMzPg 14 Dating Do\u2019s And Don\u2019t]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40g4zdy Things I Learned From Being the Other Woman]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4g5P3a0 How to Heal From A Break-Up]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3CsGZlY Friends-with-Chemistry]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h0Kqj4 All the break-up feelings.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h1aTwG The Most Important Dating Lesson]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40lMA5M Anatomy of Date: After.]]\n\nRecently, a few of my friends have come across the sentiment that men don\u2019t want to even date seriously if they\u2019re not in a certain place financially. Can you explain whether this is really a thing or an excuse to avoid commitment? And if it is a thing what types of markers do men need before they can feel comfortable progressing in a relationship?\nCurious About Men And Cash\n\nDear Curious,\nAs anyone with a TV and internet access is aware of, there\u2019s a well-publicized epidemic of singledom plaguing the Black community. In comparison to 50, sh*t, even 20 years ago, less of us are getting married, and the people who are getting married are waiting longer and longer to do it. And, it\u2019s not like the want to be coupled up isn\u2019t still there. If this was true\u2014if people just didn\u2019t want to be together anymore\u2014How to Spell Like You\u2019re Always Writing From a Flip Phone would the only book Tyrese would be able to publish.\n(Personally, I don\u2019t think this\u2014less and less people getting married\u2014is a completely bad thing. Marriage\/parenthood isn\u2019t for everyone, and the more people ill-equipped for marriage and parenthood that realize this, the better.)\n \nBut, while everything from men wanting to extend the player card as long as possible to the feminist movement are cited when people ask why contemporary men may seem more reluctant to commit, from my experience the most common thing stopping men from being commitment-minded is the tenuousness of many of our job situations\/finances. Basically, (most) men don\u2019t want to entertain the idea of starting something serious unless the rest of their life is in order.\nOne of the reasons why men 40 and 50 years ago were ready to settle earlier was because you could just graduate from high school and walk into a job at a plant or a steel mill and make a pretty decent salary. 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Basically, if a guy is making a decent salary at a bank, but is thinking about going back to school to be an engineer (or rapper), he\u2019s not settled yet.)","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-01-22","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-01-22","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ShouldIWaitForHimToGetHisMoneyRight","date_creation_fiche":"2025-01-22 08:45:13","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-01-22 08:45:14","user":"184.22.249.255","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-01-22\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-01-22\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ShouldIWaitForHimToGetHisMoneyRight\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-01-22 08:45:13\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-01-22 08:45:14\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?ShouldIWaitForHimToGetHisMoneyRight"},"IMakeOutWithMyFirstBonafide9":{"bf_titre":"I Make-Out With My First Bonafide 9","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h3MvdW Should Single Guys Use Emoticons]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3EiEFyw Leaving the Ghosts of an Ex Behind]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4haQ6Ho Bitchiness as a Defense Mechanism: Lessons from Blogging About My Ex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4h52uZq Can You be Friends With an Ex?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gdcbUr The Men We Know We Have No Future With\u2026]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40ocvJY Men Who Ghost Before the First Date]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40sSTUX No Strings Attached is Bullshit.]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Wvgp2u Do Women Really Want Equality In Relationships?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40xMbx9 Your Best Friend the Hag]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40vx4Eb Why Being Single Doesn\u2019t Suck]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40qt4oJ Rules For Hanging Out With Your Ex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gaFyGD How to Approach Guys in a Bar]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40r6vjH How NOT to Approach A Guy In A Bar]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/40r6wUN 8 Facts about Cheating]]\n\nI was at the club with Poker Playing Engineer and Tall Spanish Guy again.  A couple of clubs.  Across the street from each other.  We were bouncing back and forth, the one with much cheaper drinks also had much less women, so we\u2019d hit that one, grab a couple, down them and then bounce back across the street.\n\nHey, I\u2019m on a budget here.\n\nNight hadn\u2019t gone too well\u2026. a couple of decent sets that I was able to get onto the dance floor.  One fight I almost got in, because I bumped into a guy and spilled his drink.   He wanted me to pay for another one.  I shrugged him off and went on with my life.\n\nI had one black chick I thought was a real good set.  I had her on the dance floor and had her asian friend pawned off onto Poker Playing Engineer, but when I went for the make-out, I got a rejection coupled with the \u201cI have a boyfriend\u201d line.\n\nTo which, I said something stupid like, \u201cwhere\u2019s your boyfriend?\u201d\n\nShe said, \u201cat home.\u201d\n\nI said, \u201cexactly.  he\u2019s not here\u201d  and tried to make out with her again.  At this point, she stopped dancing with me and went and grabbed her friend off of Poker Playing Engineer and that was the last I saw of them.  Oops.\n\nThe night was ending uneventfully.  Tall Spanish Guy had already left and Poker Playing Engineer were about ready to leave by about 3am.  We were heading out the door, when a two set I couldn\u2019t pass up walked by me.\n\nI look at Poker Playing Engineer, \u201chold on man, let\u2019s go approach them.\u201d\n\n\u201cI thought we were leaving.\u201d\n\n\u201cYeah, we are.  One more set, if it doesn\u2019t go anywhere, we leave.  What\u2019s the harm in trying?\u201d\n\n\u201cAlright,\u201d  he gives in.\n\nI barrel back after the two set.  Approach them both and interrupt their conversation and casually place my hands on each of their shoulders to get their attentions.  I talk for a bit, introduce myself and then bring my wing in, isolate my target, chat with her and then extract her to the dance floor.\n\nAt this point, I can\u2019t tell if she\u2019s Asian or Hispanic.  Doesn\u2019t matter.  She\u2019s gorgeous.\n\nI talk to her some more while I dance with her, she\u2019s 19.  She\u2019s tiny as fuck.  Damn her waist is so small, I can\u2019t stop grabbing it.\n\nA couple of songs in and we\u2019re making out.  I hit her with the dirty talk in her ear and she makes out with some more, then pulls back and grabs her phone and lifts it up and turns the light on.\n\n\u201cHold on, I want to see what you look like\u2026\u201d  she says.\n\nAfter she looks me over with her cell phone light, she goes back to making out with me.  I number close her now, early, and then extract her back off of the dance floor.  Then, back to the dance floor.  Leading her all around for no real reason at all.\n\nMore dancing, more making out, more \u201cI\u2019m going to fuck the shit out of you\u201d type of talk and she\u2019s loving every minute of it.\n\nBut, eventually Poker Playing Engineer blows it out with her friend and they\u2019re ready to leave.  We head out too.  Call it a night.\n\nWhen I get home, she texts me\n\nHer, 3:34 am:  This is [her name] what\u2019s your name\n\nMe, 3:48 am:  Willy Wonka\n\nHer, 3:51 am:  Are you foreighn?   [What?  I\u0027ve never gotten that one before..... lol]\n\nMe, 3:58 am:  No.  I\u2019m from [this city]\u2026 my mother is Polish though\u2026 you?\n\nHer, 4:03 am:  I\u2019m from [some town]\n\nI let the convo die there\u2026. 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Like or Dislike: Thumb up 13 Thumb down 1\n\nReply\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-02-21","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-02-21","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"DatingAppsAndMentalHealthAreWeSwipingOu","date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-21 10:37:41","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-02-21 10:37:42","user":"49.145.97.180","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-02-21\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-02-21\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022DatingAppsAndMentalHealthAreWeSwipingOu\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-21 10:37:41\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-02-21 10:37:42\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?DatingAppsAndMentalHealthAreWeSwipingOu"},"YouHaveAGreatAttitudeGirl":{"bf_titre":"You have a great attitude, girl.","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3D2ANld The Top 10 White Lies People Tell In Online Dating Profiles]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41vh1rX Things I Wish I Knew About Dating When I Was 22]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iep6qp 8 Reasons You\u2019re Single]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ig4Bth Let\u2019s Talk About Negging]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gVXpl6 What Are Your Pre-Date Nerves?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41wln26 10 Things You Should Never Say To A Man In Bed]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3F5nNM3 8 Things Men Want Women To Do In Bed]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41uRW04 9 Things I Dread About Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4gVqFZq I Wasn\u2019t Jewish Enough]]\n\nEmily Macintosh5 years ago\nYou have a great attitude, girl. But really not to worry, there\u2019s a good chance there will be some PFC Macintosh Jr.\u2019s running around in the not too distant future. Just have to make it over to the west side at some point to make it happen. I agree with Kelly and clj to a point. Perhaps having your own biological children is not in the cards for everyone, but for those who have the desire, fostering\/adoption\/big bro or sis is a wonderful way to literally save a child\u2019s life while also fulfilling a need that resides in almost every soul. In my younger years back east, I was a big brother to two boys who lived in dreadful circumstances. As stupid as this sounds, I was inspired by the a cliche movie that Keanu Reeves did way back when about an inner city little league team. Right then I decided to get off my ass and give back a little. It was a most rewarding experience and I got to help two kids through an otherwise unguided adolescence, coach some baseball and just try to help two kids have a semblance of childhood as I knew it. It would be arrogant to compare it to parenting, but I now have two little brothers for life and Lord knows it\u2019s been rewarding beyond description. For me, the experience affirmed a belief that, should biological children not be in the cards, I could love and raise a child that was not my own biologically just the same. In some ways, a child you take in will be even be more rewarding and more bonded than a biological child, because those children will eventually know exactly what was lost and what they have gained. So my travel schedule and insatiable enjoyment of the fairer sex has not been conducive to starting a family as yet, but it just goes to show that many people, even some you might not suspect, have a lot to give to the unwanted children in this world. Where I diverge in my opinion with clj and Kelly is that, for the vast majority of people, they can tell themselves all they want about a fulfilling life without children; however the cold reality is that 99% of us want\/need the companionship of a family, the laughter of children, the unconditional love that goes two ways and fulfillment you simply cannot get without it. You can be a big brother, you can be a cool aunt, you can be an inspiring teacher \u2013 but none of these things is a substitute for what the soul really needs. Emily, I always champion your efforts at love, and every yo yo who reads this blog knows you are the real deal. So I\u2019m not worried about you as much as you might be right now. Things will turn your way and will happen quickly when they do. Maybe even with your boy Single Steve, but more likely with PFC, or a reasonable facsimile. Keep on truckin\u2019 Em.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2021-02-25","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2021-02-25","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"YouHaveAGreatAttitudeGirl","date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-25 10:39:41","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-02-25 10:39:42","user":"49.145.97.180","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222021-02-25\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222021-02-25\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022YouHaveAGreatAttitudeGirl\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-25 10:39:41\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-02-25 10:39:42\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?YouHaveAGreatAttitudeGirl"},"WhyWomenSayMenDontCommunicateWhileMenS":{"bf_titre":"Why Women Say Men Don\u2019t Communicate While Men Say Women Overthink","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QWSfe6 We\u2019re All Slutty For The Right Guy]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QXZa6L Dear Men: This Is Why Loyalty Is So Important To Women]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XLbF9B How Do You Avoid Dating a Liberal\/Conservative?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41EVtI7 Are You Looking For Fast Love Too?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FhnSwB Should You Fake an Active Lifestyle for Love?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Ffy1tE When a Relationship Feels Like a Secret Mission]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41HLdPc Pushing Through It]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bIFWvv Embracing The Unexpected Path Of Singlehood]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DzQ6SD Why Is It So Hard to Believe Someone Might Stay?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XDyxI4 Am I Crazy Or Is He A Hot Mess?]]\n\nSignature Qualities:\nBad pickup lines in subways; insomnia; knuckle cracking\n\nFamous Bowl Dwellers:\nNapoleon, Muddy Waters, Bettie Page, Grover Cleveland, Virginia Wolfe\n\nYour Reading:\nYou convince yourself that you need love in order to be happy, so you seek and eventually find yourself in a relationship. This lasts a few weeks, maybe a month, when you realize how much work and perhaps money it takes to be in love \u2013 so you bail. You are hooked on the honeymoon state of a relationship \u2013 those first four or five dates \u2013 but when it matures into something of meaning and responsibility, you\u2019re outta there. You can\u2019t take rejection, and when it happens you pursue that person with increased gusto, fueled by your father\u2019s story of how he landed your mom with sheer determination. This never really works out for you, though. When in a relationship, you consider the \u201crelationship\u201d a third person that you both need to heed and acknowledge. The problem is, you have deep hatred for this third person causing you to murder it (the relationship) immediately. You are the type that makes New Year\u2019s resolutions, and follows them, until you forget what they were two weeks later.\n\nI once saw a cat try its damnedest to murder a nun.  The cat, with whom I eventually formed a synergistic, if not loving, relationship due to long term co-habitation, was an asshole, but he was an entertaining asshole, and never did learn that if he concentrated on chasing the laser pointer, he wouldn\u2019t notice that he was gaiting full tilt towards the wall.\n\nBut he was an asshole.  Face it ladies, all cats are, even the girl ones.  Which is why it is time for you all to face facts: no matter what we say to women of the world, us boys do not like your cats. Whats that, you say? Every boy you\u2019ve ever brought home has said he liked Mr. Fluffykins?  You can\u2019t possibly be that naive.  He was trying to get to your kitty through your pussy.\n\nBoys don\u2019t like cats. Case in point, you\u2019ve never met one who owns one who wasn\u2019t at least a bit\u2026 off.  Cats don\u2019t even like cats.  What, you have two?  Maybe they\u2019ll put on a little pussy-on-pussy show to get a treat, but the minute your back is turned sister, it\u2019s all fur and fangs, and not in a good way.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-11","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-11","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhyWomenSayMenDontCommunicateWhileMenS","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-11 17:38:36","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-11 17:38:36","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-11\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-11\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhyWomenSayMenDontCommunicateWhileMenS\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-11 17:38:36\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-11 17:38:36\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?WhyWomenSayMenDontCommunicateWhileMenS"},"IsItEasierForSingleDadsToDateThanSingl":{"bf_titre":"Is It Easier for Single Dads to Date Than Single Moms","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DGDSYk Is He Assertive or Just Angry?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bPGeAK Why I\u2019m Done Playing by Traditional Dating Rules]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iFx6kI Modern Romance: The New Dating Rules]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4itFjbF Can You Spot the Four Types of Men Out There?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FECPbT What to Do When a Friendship Becomes Toxic]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4itS7yR How to Take Advantage of Being Single]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bPGeRg He Acted Like He Was Still Single]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kRzWVl Following My Dream Nearly Cost Me My Marriage]]\n\n\nAnd lastly, I have been on dates with women who are seriously only out there dating for free meals\/drinks and I think of these women as escorts without the putting out part. And those women are giving other women a bad name because it\u2019s making more men in my generation wary of paying because we wonder if the girl is only going out with us to get a meal because she has no self respect.\n\nOne girl I went out with, we had our date and she actually whipped out her wallet and demanded to pay her 50%. She thought it was bullshit that women expected men to pay, and she wasn\u2019t a whore.\n\nMaybe she just didn\u2019t want to sleep with me, but I was surprised when she said, \u201cplease don\u2019t fight with me on this one, let me pay my half.\u201d\n\nSad because we had no connection or spark. But she was super cool.\n\nReply\n\nCali Bradshaw\nMarch 21, 2011 at 8:27 pm #\nAh yes, let me clarify, once you are in relationship land \u2013 that is a different story. And I think that has a different set of rules for each couple. This is purely in regards to the beginning dating\/courtship. Sounds like you are a classy guy though, so really you don\u2019t need this advice!\n\nReply\n\nRicky\nMarch 21, 2011 at 8:39 pm #\nChivalry is a definite lost act, though in the changing climate I feel there should be a class given on how to date in today\u2019s world.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-14","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-14","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"IsItEasierForSingleDadsToDateThanSingl","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-14 16:27:18","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-14 16:27:18","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-14\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-14\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022IsItEasierForSingleDadsToDateThanSingl\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-14 16:27:18\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-14 16:27:18\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?IsItEasierForSingleDadsToDateThanSingl"},"SalonVivreIciEtudierTravaillerEtHabite":{"bf_titre":"Salon Vivre ici : \u00e9tudier, travailler et habiter en Dr\u00f4me Proven\u00e7ale","bf_description":"Un salon r\u00e9unissant de nombreuses initiatives et institutions locales \u00e0 destination :\n\n - des entreprises et employeurs locaux souhaitant mettre en vitrine leur offre\n - des familles et apprenants souhaitant se former, \u00e9tudier sur place\n - des demandeurs d\u0027emplois cherchant des pistes locales\n - des porteurs de projets et nouveaux habitants souhaitant s\u0027installer, entreprendre ou encore am\u00e9liorer leurs vies sur place.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2025-11-19T10:00:00+01:00","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2025-11-19T20:00:00+01:00","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"Maison de Pays","bf_code_postal":"26110","bf_ville":"Nyons","bf_latitude":"44.3566536","bf_longitude":"5.1352553849884615","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"SalonVivreIciEtudierTravaillerEtHabite","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","geolocation":{"bf_latitude":"44.3566536","bf_longitude":"5.1352553849884615"},"date_creation_fiche":"2025-02-20 12:17:37","statut_fiche":"1","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-15 18:55:53","user":"CampusCedille","owner":"CampusCedille","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222025-11-19T10:00:00+01:00\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222025-11-19T20:00:00+01:00\u0022 data-bf_latitude=\u002244.3566536\u0022 data-bf_longitude=\u00225.1352553849884615\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022SalonVivreIciEtudierTravaillerEtHabite\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-02-20 12:17:37\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-15 18:55:53\u0022 data-owner=\u0022CampusCedille\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?SalonVivreIciEtudierTravaillerEtHabite"},"HowToHandleDifferentParentingStylesWithou":{"bf_titre":"How to Handle Different Parenting Styles Without Destroying Your Marriage","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FzAU8H He Cheats on Me During Business Trips]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kybJUa He Cheated with a Woman from the Gym]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kybKrc He Dotes On His Son and Ignores Me]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kUHFSz He Didn\u0027t Know How to Listen to Her]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/43N1QM8 He Flirts Too Much]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Dx1wGV Marriage Advice: 13 Lessons]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XV0kDU Separate Vacations Don\u2019t Have to Mean Divorce]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DyQ39M Are Soul Mates Fact or Fiction?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kybNTU Love vs. Parenthood: When the Perfect Partner Doesn\u2019t Want Kids]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kUHHKb Caring for Dad Is Destroying My Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DJU37i First Date: Who Pays and What It Really Means]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Dv3Kqg Dating a Dad: When You Like Him But Not His Kid]]\n\n\nSo that leads to proportionate to income paying on dates, more or less. Any time a guy pays more than that post bang, he\u2019s signaling he\u2019s a beta provider type guy, and makes himself less sexually attractive to her. Maybe attractive as a good dad, but as for me, no thanks.\n\nReply\n\nMr. Traditional\nApril 6, 2011 at 2:44 pm #\nAs a man I always expect to pay for dates \u2013 and for the most part that is how I like it. My rule is: I offer to pay, or just go to pay it. If the girl offers to pay I appreciate it and pay it anyway. If she insists twice \u2013 she pays it.\n\nI don\u2019t like it if the girl reads the check. If I\u2019m paying, it is a gift because I like you, so the cost should not be a concern for her.\n\nSome women insist on splitting everything or on alternating who pays. I\u2019ll tolerate the alternation thing \u2013 but I don\u2019t like it.\n\nI won\u2019t tolerate check splitting on a regular basis. It is unsexy to be splitting things down to the dollar level like that.\n\nI like feminine women which is why I like paying for dinner dates. I know it makes you feel special \u2013 so it is my pleasure to treat you.\n\nAnd of course I do the asking, I open doors for you, I buy you nice things on valentine\u2019s day, your birthday, and christmas. I pay for our weekend getaways.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-17","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-17","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"HowToHandleDifferentParentingStylesWithou","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-17 16:46:26","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-17 16:46:27","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-17\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-17\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022HowToHandleDifferentParentingStylesWithou\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-17 16:46:26\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-17 16:46:27\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?HowToHandleDifferentParentingStylesWithou"},"TheImportanceOfDateNightsPrioritizingYou":{"bf_titre":"The Importance of Date Nights: Prioritizing Your Relationship","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DzDL0U He Had an Affair Because I Stopped Initiating Sex]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hiX8sN He Makes Me Feel Bad About Being Fat]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DJhz4p He Lost Interest in Our Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hkeh5t Saving A Marriage: He Lost His Job]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ie35sj He Lets His Mother Rule Our Lives and I\u0027m Sick of It]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DPhuME Commitment Jitters]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FBCVkF Love and Lust: When Chemistry Outruns Endurance]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4heaIh2 Bi Bi Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42ejPd6 Dealing With Your Partner\u2019s Bedroom Confessions]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DL0vLm Can His Squalor Be Squelched?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/43Zhkwy Asunder Down Under]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iaTwKD Conquering Long Distance Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FBCVBb Coveting a Coworker]]\n\nCali Bradshaw\nOctober 28, 2011 at 3:26 am #\nAw Kelsey, you are the best! You know, it\u2019s funny, but when people leave harsh comments, I doubt they realize how hurtful they actually are. When I write a saucy post, it isn\u2019t about one person, or it isn\u2019t addressed to that one person at least. But when I get personal comments, it makes my tummy hurt a little bc people who don\u2019t know me at all, are making comments about who I am as a person. At the end of the day, this blog is supposed to be fun, so when someone tells me that I need to get over myself or I\u2019ll be single in my 30s, (and that is not nearly as mean as many comments) it really bums me out. But when I then see that I have a reader (you!) defend me, when you don\u2019t even know me, seriously makes my night. Thank you for making me smile and reminding me that I am not alone in wishing for a quality man. XO. -Cali\n\nReply\n\nKelsey\nOctober 29, 2011 at 12:40 am #\nEver so welcome. I dislike posts started just for the sake of causing drama. This is not high school. Believe me, I know, because I\u2019m still in one half the day. :P\n\nHaha aw to be young again! I wish I was still in HS. Those were the days!\n\n\nNorwegian blend\nWell, honestly I think you were a bit unfair yourself. While it is not ok to make assumptions about you (or anyone else for the sake of being), the post that you\u2019ve just made may easily be interpreted as provocative. You clearly addressed a whole lot of guys in that post, the ones that frequently use abbreviations and emoticons after which you described them in a derogatory manner, making comparisons to being twelve years old.\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2024-03-18","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2024-03-18","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"TheImportanceOfDateNightsPrioritizingYou","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-18 17:44:25","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-18 17:44:25","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222024-03-18\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222024-03-18\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022TheImportanceOfDateNightsPrioritizingYou\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-18 17:44:25\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-18 17:44:25\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?TheImportanceOfDateNightsPrioritizingYou"},"WhatsInAMaritalStatusAnyway":{"bf_titre":"What\u2019s in a marital status, anyway?","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bCTPeO He Went to War and Came Back a Changed Man]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3XYmpBu Unmasking Hidden Unhappiness in Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hmImRV Workaholic Heartbreak: When Success Costs Your Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kACG9E Recession Realities: When Financial Stress Tests a Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RgepYW When Unemployment Tests Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RhVRaJ Movies That All Women Should See To Understand Men]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y0Q64V Love Lies and Responsibility]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DTY35d The Dating Mishaps of the Ladies of Love Twenty]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RoJzxb The Black Male Preference Privilege]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RjLaV4 Anatomy of a Great (Reality) Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DQedfU Your Rear End or Your Pride]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y24B8F Why Splitting Costs Isn\u0027t Splitting Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RgxeLs (Broken) Laws of Attraction ]]\n\n\u201cWhen are you getting married?\u201d\n\n\u201cYou have a new boyfriend yet?\u201d\n\n\u201cDon\u2019t you feel alone on weekends?\u201d\n\nBeing single in a couple\u2019s word is not easy. I wonder why people keep judging others so much by their marital status. Yes, singles are on the rise, more people are getting divorced and more and more people are now considering the fact of living and staying alone. Yet it\u2019s still a couple\u2019s world out there, and many still believe that single = looser. But who says us singles can\u2019t enjoy life? There is so much to look to when you\u2019re alone. Being single is ME time and should be enjoyed to the fullest. So don\u2019t fall into the \u2018I have to get married\u2019 mindset and start appreciating what life has to offer, with or without a partner.\n\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-20","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-20","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhatsInAMaritalStatusAnyway","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-20 17:11:12","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-20 17:11:12","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-20\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-20\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhatsInAMaritalStatusAnyway\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-20 17:11:12\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-20 17:11:12\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?WhatsInAMaritalStatusAnyway"},"MyMorningRoutine":{"bf_titre":"My Morning Routine","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41V0MU7 Surviving a Long-Term Affair and Saving a Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iwlwbV Transforming Communication and Parenting in a Troubled Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c037lm Healing a Marriage by Confronting Insecurities and Building Trust]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4kSx1Mh Religious Differences and Strengthening Marriage Bonds]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUogNH The Affection Gap: Bridging Emotional Distance in a Long-Term Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUohkJ Workplace Dating Detours]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUohRL When Blind Dates Go Wrong]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bUoiFj Comfort Vs. Fulfillment In Modern Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41R8Y7P Demanding Respect and Openness in a Relationship]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bVNmvE Get Outta My Dating Pool]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iFRbaL Seeking Clarity and Connection in Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4izaKBE Gym Flirting 101]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41Yixlv Finding Balance in Love After Loss]]\n\nI wanted to share with you how I start my day. I have already discussed that I am not a morning person. I do not enjoy getting up before the sun does. I do not enjoy getting out of my warm bed, crawling from under my giant down comforter and putting on cold clothes. I hate my feet being cold and getting out of bed means cold feet...therefore I\u0027m not happy about it. I usually set my alarm for as late as humanly possible, making it impossible to snooze my alarm. I drag myself out of bed, use the bathroom, brush my teeth, re-scrunch my curly crazy hair, throw on the first set of jeans and t-shirt combo I come across, socks and shoes follow. I throw on a hoodie and grab my huge coach purse (seriously carpet bag sized with EVERYTHING in it) and then head for the door. I grumble a good morning to my grandmother and then brave the cold fall weather as I trudge to the car port.\n\nThat is me, every week day morning. I don\u0027t have to dress up to nanny. I don\u0027t have to be all dolled up. Usually I appreciate this as it allows me extra sleep time. I always have makeup necessities in my purse so sometimes I\u0027ll do up my makeup once at work. Sometimes I dress up if I have plans right after work...but these days are rare. Normally I save my makeup and my nice clothes for weekends and that\u0027s just fine with me.\n\nAnyway, the point of this blog was to share with you something I DON\u0027T do. I don\u0027t pay any attention to my mirror. I rarely give myself a good look, let alone take in the lovingly laminated and posted quotes on my mirror. I am mad at myself for this. I put them there for a reason. These affirmations were meant to start my day right, everyday. To send me to bed in the right frame of mind, every night. I don\u0027t do this anymore and this is my self scolding.\n\nI had one of those day by day flip calenders and when they struck me I would rip them off and keep them in a folder for when I needed inspiration. I would write them down in a journal just for quotes from movies, songs, etc that moved me. At one point these words were so important to me that I felt I should see them everyday...so why did I stop paying attention?\n\nHere is what I am talking about:\n\n I don\u0027t think I have to say why this quote means a lot to me. I know it\u0027s kind of cheesy to have this on my mirror, but I really do believe in these words. I think it\u0027s important to remember to not waste the time we are given, to make sure our day means something, that we mean something to somebody else every single day. It reminds me to say, \u0022I love you\u0022 every time I feel it and to say \u0022thank you\u0022 every time I mean it.\n\n Alright, the top quote was put up there in a rough time. I was quitting my corporate job for nannying, contemplating going back to school, terrified to really make a go at writing, and wondering where the heck my life was going. It was important for me to remember that my parents weren\u0027t going to be thrilled I was throwing away my degree to nanny. And that my grandmother would probably never get to read half of my writing as she\u0027d be horrified at most of what I have to say. I had to remember that if I was happy then that\u0027s all that really mattered.\n\nThe bottom quote is meaningful because I need to remember that if I want to succeed, if I want to move forward in life that I need to try new things. That I need to make the first step and without fear of where it will take me, to live in the moment. Honestly it really is just a rewording of the quote underneath.\n\n\ufeff\nThis quote was and still is important in making me overcome my everyday fears that seek to hold me back. The same fears I wrote about in \u0022My Largest Obstacle: Myself\u0022. I have to remind myself non stop to getting in my own way. To just do it, do it because I can, and not worry about where it might go. It\u0027s important to remember that I can\u0027t always be perfect, I can\u0027t be great at everything, but I can sure as shit try.\n\nSo here it is. I just blogged on being more present, being more aware of the world around me, more engaged. So, how is it that I am ignoring things that stare me in the face everyday, several times a day!? I guess the task starts at home. I\u0027m going to try and take more time in the morning to be more aware of these quotes, to go back to repeating them out loud and making sure I really \u0022see\u0022 them.\n\nThat is my promise to myself, and if I say it out loud...or write it out loud to all of you then you will hold me to it. You will yell at me in comments to \u0022READ YOUR DAMN QUOTES JEWELS!\u0022 and that will keep me honest and real about my task to stay more present in my own life.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-03-24","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-03-24","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"MyMorningRoutine","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-24 17:36:22","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-24 17:36:22","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-03-24\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-03-24\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022MyMorningRoutine\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-24 17:36:22\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-24 17:36:22\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?MyMorningRoutine"},"MakingNewFriendsLeadsToAllSortsOfOpport":{"bf_titre":"Making New Friends Leads to All Sorts of Opportunities","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iU1lnV His Ex is Ruining Our Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4hG6rmS Balancing Step-Parenting and Marital Harmony]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c3uknc Rebuilding a Marriage in the Sandwich Generation Squeeze]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iVjyS2 A Marriage Tested by Cancer]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/424burw His Business Crashed \u2014 And So Did Our Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4bWTZOh Dating a Recovering Alcoholic]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c0TToX Is It Weird to Date a Relative?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j03zCn His Cheatin\u2019 Heart]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iGUS04 What\u2019s Our Relationship Status?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c0Ty5F Should You Give an Ex a Second Chance?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c0x7gM Long-Distance Love vs. Local Connection]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iYl464 Trust in a Strained Marriage: Letters in the Attic]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c6JiIX Dating Rules: Smart Strategy or Outdated Nonsense?]]\n\nI have a theory that if all the people who note on their dating profiles that they \u0022love to take long walks on the beach\u0022 actually took them, there would be no need for dating services. They\u0027d meet other people who love taking long walks on the beach, and who knows where that would lead.\n\nBut if you hate taking long walks on the beach, surely you like doing other things. So do them. Even if it\u0027s knitting, join a group and go. You don\u0027t know who\u0027s mother or sister is going to befriend you there.\n\nMy friend, Kristen, is a writer (among other things) who took to working from a table at Panera Bread over a year ago. Since she\u0027s hardly alone in this, she\u0027s since met a commercial artist, a doctor\/astrologer (yes!), another writer, and most recently \u0022two really cute guys who know all about computers.\u0022 Kristen\u0027s married, so she\u0027s not in the market to meet two really cute guys, but surely somebody else is.\n\nIf time constraints prevent you from hanging out in coffee shops, don\u0027t despair. I made two lasting friends in other countries through Irish Penpals, a free service that connects you with other people of either sex (your choice, and nobody has to be Irish).\n\nAt the time I joined, I spent most winter days trapped in the house with two toddlers and was eager to \u0022meet\u0022 a new international friend. I\u0027ve been writing to Elaine in Manchester, England and Petra in Germany ever since.\n\nIrish Penpals reports that at least one marriage has resulted from the service.\n\nViveca Stone-Berry, who founded Dog Captions cards with her photographer brother Richard H. Stone, recommends that you make a friend of a serviceperson through A Million Thanks (http:\/\/www.amillionthanks.org).\n\nIf you express your appreciation to someone in our military, you\u0027ll be doing a good and worthwhile thing. Good and worthwhile things often lead to more good and worthwhile things -- one way or another.","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2024-03-25","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2024-03-25","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"MakingNewFriendsLeadsToAllSortsOfOpport","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-25 17:56:37","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-25 17:56:37","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222024-03-25\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222024-03-25\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022MakingNewFriendsLeadsToAllSortsOfOpport\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-25 17:56:37\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-25 17:56:37\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?MakingNewFriendsLeadsToAllSortsOfOpport"},"ThisIsSeriousShesMySoulmate":{"bf_titre":"THIS IS SERIOUS, SHE\u2019S MY SOULMATE!","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j71lkI Marriage vs. Addiction: Winning the Battle for Love]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y176Ig Marriage Without Intimacy: Can Love Survive the Distance?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RlpxUo Holding On or Letting Go: When Addiction Tests a Marriage]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QRZeFf The Marriage We Almost Lost: How Unemployment Changed Everything]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DWXmIn Marriage And Chaos: Finding Common Ground in Parenting]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DUscBy He Seemed Interested. So Why Didn\u2019t He Call?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j5nIH7 Online Dating Isn\u2019t Desperation]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iRfgeP Changing Your Dating Approach]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c3yRWJ Why Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iXYkD2 Dating Someone With Debt]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41JHmCI Marriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Xw23iW The Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DTawpM How to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray]]\n\nSo\u2026\u2026yeaaaaah. Really strange night. I mean, his whole idea is like \u2018if you can successfully control yourself and \u2014 somehow \u2014 turn around a situation where people just fucking hate you on principle\u2026.what can stop you?\u2019 Anyway\u2026it was a really weird night. As you can imagine\u2026.my AA was in serious overdrive. Ted forced me into a set two girls, three guys, and it was fucking ridiculous. Liiiiike, there was this raunchy auburn haired cowgirl who probably called me a nigger like a bajillion times, and I mean\u2026.I just didn\u2019t know how to handle it. She also asked insane questions, like \u2018how big is your cock?\u2019 \u2018would you like me to suck that nigger dick?\u2019 She was a 5\u2026but the set was mixed, so I had literally NO CLUE how to fucking handle it. I was a Scraymouse.\n\nTed is some sort of insane person. Like\u2026one of the dudes at one point was like \u2018this goddamned anchor baby beaner,\u2019 and Ted throws his head back, \u2018yeah, all right, gomer pyle, bob hope eat a dick whoever the fuck you are\u2026\u2019 and everyone laughed their asses off.\n\nMy question now\u2026.I mean, that was an extremely uncomfortable environment for me. But at the same time\u2026like, Ted just handled it like a goddamned champion. Is there something to his theory, or is Ted insane\u2026or both?\n\nSaturday:\n\nI lost my ID at CW bar. I was planning on not going out, but there was an event at a club that 90% of the school social circle were attending. So\u2026why not? I snag a paper copy of my driver\u2019s license from my job and just decide to run a gambit.\n\nIt works, and I get in to the club with everyone else.\n\nOnly one set, and really, it\u2019s a girl I somewhat know already. She\u2019s been with two of the guys in my social circle already. She\u2019s like a 6.5. I talk with her at the bar. So, my new thing that I\u2019ve been trying out has been break-up\/make-up. It goes really well with \u2018I love you.\u2019\n\nEarlier, I had told her friend that I was going to spread a rumor that she was engaged to an Argentenian wiffle ball player named Rodrigo. So, I tell 6.5 to make sure she goes back to her friend and asks about Rodrigo. Then I just am like, also, tell your friend that I\u2019m in crazy mad crazy love with her. And 6.5 laughs, and I\u2019m like \u2018THIS IS SERIOUS, SHE\u2019S MY SOULMATE!\u2019 Her eyes widen, and she nods.\n\n","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-27","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-27","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"ThisIsSeriousShesMySoulmate","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-27 17:34:48","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-27 17:34:49","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-27\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-27\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022ThisIsSeriousShesMySoulmate\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-27 17:34:48\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-27 17:34:49\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?ThisIsSeriousShesMySoulmate"},"WhenItRains":{"bf_titre":"When it rains...","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41PKmxx Marriage vs. Memories: Can We Declutter and Stay Together?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y4DbPq Marriage Under Stress: Navigating Parenthood and Mental Health]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c8V31p The Silent Strain: How Unspoken Needs Led to a Marriage Crisis]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/447Vp6q Marriage on the Rocks: Navigating the Challenges of Illness and Expectations]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/447Vqau From Disconnect to Connection: Rebuilding Marriage After Fear and Fatigue]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c6bMm2 Living Together Was So Much Easier Than Being Married]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/447VqHw The Ultimate Guide to Successful Online Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FMOSUY Smack and Marriage Don\u2019t Mix]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ciwLlW Why Dating Feels Like a Game and How to Win at It]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/43XYLZJ How to Date Without Losing Yourself]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4l6ngtV How to Decide When Relationship Feels Platonic]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4408qPq Is Your Dating History A Dealbreaker?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c8CN8k Ratting Out a Cheater]]\n\nTruly \u2013 when it rains, it pours. I have quite a few dates lined up in the near future \u2013 there\u2019s a chance that I may become overwhelmed \u2013 or at the very least confused as far as what stories I\u2019ve shared with whom. But at this point, I\u2019m feeling quite flirty and non-committal, so my plan is to have fun while it lasts.\n\nThe current lineup:\n\nEarlier this week, I went on my 106th first date since my last serious relationship ended three years ago. Date #106 was with Fun Bobby \u2013 it was a very easy-going, good time. I felt as if I\u2019d known him for longer than the few hours we spent together \u2013 but I wonder if I\u2019m projecting \u2013 he looks a little like my friend, Good Hair Guy. (I\u2019ve given him this moniker of \u201cFun Bobby\u201d because his profile indicates that he\u2019s a little unsure if he\u2019s looking for a serious relationship right now \u2013 I\u2019ve considered myself warned!)\n\nWithin a few days he e-mailed to say he\u2019d had a lovely time, and asked if I was free to get together again this weekend. Plans are in place.\n\nThen there\u2019s Good Voice \u2013 date number two is set for next week. I can\u2019t help but compare him to TC, who was in limbo with his career, and felt that that translated to his overall life (including dating). GV is very much together \u2013 quite successful, in fact \u2013 and this is refreshing in comparison. I certainly would never date a guy just because he was well-off \u2013 but I feel that I\u2019ve reached a certain level of success in my career, so it\u2019s not unreasonable to want the same in a potential partner. (obviously, he has many other qualities that I like \u2013 otherwise, I wouldn\u2019t be considering a second date with him!)\n\nAnother newbie is Neighbor Dude, who lives just a few blocks from me. Good connection so far via e-mail and during first phone convo \u2013 plans are in place for this weekend. It\u2019s hard to get a read on his pics \u2013 one is rather attractive, the other, less so.\n\nThen there\u2019s U.N. \u2013 remember him, from last summer? We\u2019ve been in touch recently, and have plans for a drink next week. I have a feeling this will be a platonic get-together \u2013 BUT I liked him as a person that last time (just didn\u2019t feel that \u2018zing\u2019) \u2013 I\u2019m willing to take another chance to see if there\u2019s any chance of zing. If not, he\u2019s the kind of person I could see keeping as a friend.\n\nOne more: the FOF \u2013 Friend of a Friend (note: I initially gave him a different name, but worried that it might be too identifying). Background: we had one date last month, but he said he needed more time \u201coff\u201d after his recent breakup. I respected that, and appreciated his honesty. I wrote to him recently with a work-related question \u2013 after a few e-mails, we made plans to meet for a drink next week. I\u2019m going into this with the mindset that it may just be platonic \u2013 but if something were to happen? That would be a nice bonus \u2013 I can\u2019t explain it, there\u2019s something I like about this guy. Maybe it\u2019s because we have a friend in common, which makes him less anonymous than the guys I meet through the internet?\n\nOh \u2013 I have my eye on one more: I\u2019m going to call him McLovin. My friend C is friends with him, and thought he\u2019d be my type \u2013 when I checked out his MySpace page, I immediately fell in \u201clike\u201d with his pictures (as much as a sane 30-something reasonably can!). Great head of hair, nice smile, that Jewish New York look that I tend to go for. I just need to get more info on him. (C, if you\u2019re reading this \u2013 let\u2019s discuss soon!) There may be a possibility of a group outing in the near future \u2013 less pressure that way.\n\nMore thoughts \/ details on serial dating to follow!","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-28","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-28","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"WhenItRains","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-28 16:56:25","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-28 16:56:25","user":"185.107.162.250","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222022-03-28\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222022-03-28\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022WhenItRains\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-03-28 16:56:25\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-03-28 16:56:25\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/campuscedille.asoft-nyons.net\/?WhenItRains"},"SurelyAbductedByAliens":{"bf_titre":"Surely, abducted by aliens","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41PKmxx Marriage vs. Memories: Can We Declutter and Stay Together?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y4DbPq Marriage Under Stress: Navigating Parenthood and Mental Health]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c8V31p The Silent Strain: How Unspoken Needs Led to a Marriage Crisis]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/447Vp6q Marriage on the Rocks: Navigating the Challenges of Illness and Expectations]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/447Vqau From Disconnect to Connection: Rebuilding Marriage After Fear and Fatigue]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c6bMm2 Living Together Was So Much Easier Than Being Married]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/447VqHw The Ultimate Guide to Successful Online Dating]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3FMOSUY Smack and Marriage Don\u2019t Mix]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ciwLlW Why Dating Feels Like a Game and How to Win at It]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/43XYLZJ How to Date Without Losing Yourself]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4l6ngtV How to Decide When Relationship Feels Platonic]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4408qPq Is Your Dating History A Dealbreaker?]]\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c8CN8k Ratting Out a Cheater]]\n\nAny guys out there \u2013 question for you. And women, of course I\u2019d love your insight on this as well.\n\nBackground: Great Smile and I had what seemed to be a really nice, six-hour date last weekend. Fun, flowing conversation. Some very nice kisses.\n\nA few days passed. No word from him. I decided to throw caution to the wind, sent a light, breezy e-mail, including some information he\u2019d asked for on the date.\n\nMore days pass. Still nothing. Part of me got a bit worried \u2013 maybe something happened to him, run over by a garbage truck, perhaps? Well \u2013 unless someone else is logging onto J-date for him, he seems to be alive and well, considering he logged on today.\n\nI get it. After only two dates, he certainly doesn\u2019t \u201cowe\u201d me an explanation. And yet \u2013 how do you go from e-mailing almost every day for two weeks to NOTHING?\n\nCommon courtesy? Not so common, apparently, in the wonderful world of dating.\n\nSigh. Guys. I wrote this to CJ earlier today:\nThis \u0022dropping of the face of the earth\u0022 thing -- I can understand if the guy is in his 20s. But this one is in his late 30s -- he should know better. Dillhole.\n\nHer hilarious response:\nI think dropping off the face of the earth knows no age. Only knows penis.\n\n[DISCLAIMER: I\u2019m certainly not putting ALL guys in that category \u2013 and yes, I know women can be flaky as well.]\n\nMoving on! Currently in talks with some decent-sounding new J-guys. It remains to be seen if any of them push my buttons. Somehow, I remain optimistic.\n\nUPDATE:\nIn a \u0022why not\u0022 moment, I e-mailed Great Smile this morning -- asked if he\u0027d want to get a drink next week, to \u0022let me know either way\u0022.\n\nHe wrote back shortly after... apologized for not being in touch, and that while he had a nice time last weekend he\u0027s not \u0022feeling the love, and doesn\u0027t want to waste anyone\u0027s time\u0022.\n\nI wrote back simply, \u0022thanks for the update, wish you the very best\u0022. Of course, what I really wanted to know was, WHY bother kissing me til 1 am if you\u0027re not \u0022feeling the love\u0022??! (unless of course, he thought he was going to get more than just a few kisses)\n\nAnyway! Right now I have too many potential J-guys on my platter... I\u0027m starting to forget what I\u0027ve told to whom. 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