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So that leads to proportionate to income paying on dates, more or less. Any time a guy pays more than that post bang, he’s signaling he’s a beta provider type guy, and makes himself less sexually attractive to her. Maybe attractive as a good dad, but as for me, no thanks.

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Mr. Traditional
April 6, 2011 at 2:44 pm #
As a man I always expect to pay for dates – and for the most part that is how I like it. My rule is: I offer to pay, or just go to pay it. If the girl offers to pay I appreciate it and pay it anyway. If she insists twice – she pays it.

I don’t like it if the girl reads the check. If I’m paying, it is a gift because I like you, so the cost should not be a concern for her.

Some women insist on splitting everything or on alternating who pays. I’ll tolerate the alternation thing – but I don’t like it.

I won’t tolerate check splitting on a regular basis. It is unsexy to be splitting things down to the dollar level like that.

I like feminine women which is why I like paying for dinner dates. I know it makes you feel special – so it is my pleasure to treat you.

And of course I do the asking, I open doors for you, I buy you nice things on valentine’s day, your birthday, and christmas. I pay for our weekend getaways.
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